Hello, all.
Thank God for the Internet. Today is Saturday in New Zealand where I am traveling. There are no therapists or emergency counseling on weekends, which seems silly to me, as urgent mental health crises can happen on any day of the week, 24/7.
I knew I became more upset about things than most people, and that occasionally such strong emotions could be detrimental to situations, whether at work, home, in relationships, other. However, it wasn't until today that I became aware how serious my resentment issues had built up and how unstable my emotions can make me.
In a nutshell: some housemates (of a 30-person house of working/travelling backpackers) pissed me off. Middle of the night, while seething, I dumped bleach on their packed suitcases so "serve them right." Come morning, fit hit the shan, as expected. Turned into a physical altercation. Cops and landlord called. My bleach-related acts could not be proven and I did not confess, so I was merely evicted and escorted off premises.
Besides obvious hazards, I seriously endangered a quality, loving, devoted friendship that I hold dear and did not consider in the midst of my rage fit. It would be a tragic loss to lose the most loyal friend who has ever stood by me through my worst days and loved me in spite of it.
Now feeling overwhelmed and like an alien to myself. Having fled the city in an effort to avoid the housemates and protect my poor friend from me, I booked a same-day flight to another destination, I do not know how to proceed with facing my anger issues. I have an AA history, but no anger management help.
Advice on how to proceed and keep my head above water these coming days/weeks/months/years? I want to hide in a hole and starve to death so I will stop doing what I do to myself and others.
Thank you,
Gina