problems in the work place

Postby hardlife37 » Wed Nov 20, 2013 7:38 am

i would like my bosses and the workers who i work with understand my boundries in my work place and my home . my bosses and co workers are always asking questions and fishing for information about my privacy outside of my work place i try to explain to my boss that they hired me as a contractor to work for them and as a contractor i am intitled to my privacy during my work hours and after my work hours .this doesnt seem to sink in so well with my bosses and co workers . i told them i play golf evryday after work and thats what i enjoy doing what more information do they need to know . after all i never question my bosses private life where they been and what they have done .i see it this way i was hired by them to carry out tasks and complete tasks to the best of my abilities and that is what im payed for . im always polite freindly and i always do my work . why cant my bosses acept my boundries in the work place i work in it has created a bit of stress and ive been a bit disapointed in the lack of trust from my bosses side and not understanding my boundries .
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Postby Kamon » Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:42 pm

hardlife37 wrote:i would like my bosses and the workers who i work with understand my boundries in my work place and my home . my bosses and co workers are always asking questions and fishing for information about my privacy outside of my work place i try to explain to my boss that they hired me as a contractor to work for them and as a contractor i am intitled to my privacy during my work hours and after my work hours .this doesnt seem to sink in so well with my bosses and co workers . i told them i play golf evryday after work and thats what i enjoy doing what more information do they need to know . after all i never question my bosses private life where they been and what they have done .i see it this way i was hired by them to carry out tasks and complete tasks to the best of my abilities and that is what im payed for . im always polite freindly and i always do my work . why cant my bosses acept my boundries in the work place i work in it has created a bit of stress and ive been a bit disapointed in the lack of trust from my bosses side and not understanding my boundries .


You just have to be a jerk and put your foot down and not tell anybody. Let them know that they are getting on your nerves and let them know that they are crossing a line that makes you uncomfortable. You have to stand up for yourself or they won't stop. If they keep asking, file a complaint.
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