"its all ur fault!"

**Posts:** 14 · by **storms** » Sat Sep 10, 2005 5:15 pm

isnt this a highly irratating sentence?

whenever u have an argument with the others, sb around u always have this sentence t offer!!! in their mind , there isnt such a thing as " shares of responsibility " , instead, they use " global labelling" ! they dont try t mediate and help the 2 sides t understand each other better, but join one side t critisize u harshly, and they say," this can help u t realize ur mistake, its good 4 u! " and "even if the others make mistakes, u need to be tolerate, forgiving, open-minded,,, dont argue! if u argue, thats untolerable, unforgivable...!"

i'm totally fed up by this, i feel that i'm gona explode!!!

**Posts:** 8044 · by **satanstoystore** » Sun Sep 11, 2005 6:56 am

make it work against them. bring their argument up to a higher level, or lower level, or something to its side- in a way that makes their logic not work. Or work them into a self-bind that doesn't work. You can also contrast it by becoming more amused as they get more frustrated. Your amusement will act as an accelerated anchor to their frustration if you time it right. That means the more frustrated and less controlled they get, the more amused and witty you get. And the both of you will most likely never want to see each other again lol. so until you're ready to cut the strings, I'd save that for last.

**Posts:** 14 · by **storms** » Mon Sep 12, 2005 2:25 am

im afraid some people we have t meet , no matter how hard we confront each other...
the main issue is about ACCOMPLISHMENT, when i gain success, people r very warm t me! but, when i meet setbacks, i often receive cold shoulders, bully...
sadly, this even happens in my own home...

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