If only I were more social I wouldn't be writing this.
My life is good. I have a lovely caring gf; she's about to give birth to my first son, I did quit a soul eating job and managed to make a good friend. Money wise not so good but we survive. I try to remind my stupid good for nothing brain how grateful I am - to cheer me up or take my focus away but still have 5-10 seconds out of control.
I don't get physical anymore(used to when teen/young adult) but in my wake, all this detailed murder planning in my head sickens me horribly. Maybe I am paranoid and these thoughts are "normal"? In any case I don't like getting so mad. Because I know what anyone is capable of. I can't be getting so angry and dumb to be wanting to take someone's life.
Some people I met are so conscious when they get provoked and handle it well. I tried to fake it but only worsens my rage. What works best for me is just to shut up, block thoughts, no talk and my stupid brain forgets after a while. I really worked hard to get to where I am today. Some books and videos helped realize what works and what not and what I should be focusing on. What I am lacking I guess is direct advice although some people I opened up did try their best to help but didn't really help at all. I've been like this all my life and although I'm very slowly improving I feel like the right kind of "talk" is still somewhere out there.
This can be read as a stretch for help or a supporting note for someone like me. I worked real hard to get to where I am and I will absolutely never quit.
I want you to know that advice/opinion that can help will be greatly appreciated.