Rare situation...being watched and i'm about to explode

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Should I end the game?

Poll ended at Mon Jan 09, 2006 3:07 am

yes, tell the people I know they are watching me
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no, keep cool under pressure
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20%
ditch the chick, she's not worth my sanity
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80%
 
Total votes : 5

Postby WANTONONE » Fri Dec 30, 2005 3:07 am

Heres my problem. I know I am being watched by a girl who lives in another part of the country. She has all kinds of friends here who are secretly checking me out to see what kind of person i am (she might be interested and is coming back to this area soon) . I live a very scheduled and predictable life, so they are everywhere I go. They ask questions...sometimes I throw them by sayin something off-beat, only to hear a different person in the group mention the very same subject I mentioned. It is predictable. I am an extremely perceptive person. I know that they are watching me and that i'm not insane, but I cannot handle the emotional pressure of this whole situation. I feel like exploding around these people. I feel like I can't end their 'game' because then I will lose the girl and any chances with her. Am I so angry because I lack self-esteem? Should I just accept that i'm being watched and live with it? Have I gone insane?
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Postby satanstoystore » Sat Dec 31, 2005 8:07 pm

ok from inside your situation I understand how you think. Step ouside of it for a moment. She's testing you. Whatever is inside her, that doubt or whatever is not likely to go away. All you know is she has to test you. You don't know that it will stop if she does join you. Do you want to be tested for the rest of your life? This is her problem, not yours. Whatever you do- just let go of her problem. Don't join her reality. Let her join yours where people are accepted and not tested. If she can't do that, if you have to bend to her will and her reality- is she really worth all that??
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Postby SpiritWolf » Mon Jan 02, 2006 9:50 pm

I don't know much about this girl, but she seems the type to worry alot about stuff. So, think about it. If she came back, and you to dated, then she suddenly had suspicions you were cheating on her. She's get her friends to watch you again, instead of just trusting you, and without trust there can hardly be a relationship. Anyway, this is just from my point of view.
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