worry I make my mother sorry

She wants to visit and you want to talk to her. What's to have doubts about?

What happens to me at evenings after sleeping is doubtful. If I were sure that nothing happens I would like to stay with her for s long time

I was to call my mother but changed idea. My morale is too low fed up with life specially my work I'm boring people my only thing at ucf. I'm just an idiot what can I do?

I'm calling my mother to invite her..It may be a big mistake though.

Melancholic weird feelings arise..I hate it. I may be in a much worse position if my worries about evenings realise. Can't decide..

I decided to invite her candid what say you

Just wanna say good night to everyone..and please excuse my idiocy..

desperate788 wrote:What happens to me at evenings after sleeping is doubtful. If I were sure that nothing happens I would like to stay with her for s long time

This is intriguing. Do you think you might turn into a werewolf and bite her?

I'm calling my mother to invite her..It may be a big mistake though.

Nah. I don't believe you'd bite anyone, least of all your mother.

I may be in a much worse position if my worries about evenings realise.

Okay. I'll bite. What do you think happens in the evenings after you've been asleep for a while? Do you sleepwalk or something?

I decided to invite her candid what say you

I say bravo! Give her a hug and thank her from me for making such a lovely son.

Candid it's so kind of you to compliment. .Thank you this message lifted my spirit after another hard day..I don't harm my mother at evenings she subconsciously programmed by my father I think hurts I forget everything when I wake up..It's confusing but something happens and my mood deteriorates anyway my mother says she will come in a week or two..We made trip plans to izmir and foca..It will be nice I think..Thanks again candid and have a great evening

You're not making sense, darling. You say you don't harm your mother in the evenings AND you forget everything when you wake up. Where's the harm in that?

Whatever your father has or hasn't done to your mother isn't your fault.

I think it's great she's coming to see you, and I hope you'll both enjoy the trips you've planned.

Hearing from you makes everything better thank you..to clarify things the harmer is my mother she hurts in a subconscious different state I think she forgets it too. I believe my father programs this. I hope this time she doesn't do anything and I enjoy my trips

I think I've got it this time: you think your father has programmed your mother to hurt you. Is that right?

That kind of thinking is usually associated with serious mental illness.

Right..I know it's called paranoia. But in this case what I suspect is true. My mood seriously deteriorates after a night under same roof with my mothet after this thing started. I'm interesting I just can't understand whats really happening to myself it's ignoring escaping or something else just can't understand what's really going on its a big problem..

Have you been able to talk to her about it? I know you told her you were worried about her and she made it clear she isn't going to leave your father, but have you explicitly told her you think she's been programmed?

I know men can be very controlling of their wives. My husband is very strong-minded, has definite opinions on everything, and I've found myself changing to accommodate him. Is that the kind of thing you mean?