I wasn't sure which forum to post this in, as there are so many places. This is myself in a nutshell, perhaps someone can tell me my issues.
I was born in Rhode Island, raised in Florida, lived in Rhode Island a few more years and grew up in New hampshire till I was about 26. I have never had true friends I thought i did when I was 15, but that soon changed when I quit smoking Marijuana and my friends stopped visiting me, or even wanting to hang out with me.
My aunt is schizophrenic, so was my grandfather on my fathers side. My father left my biological mother when I was 6 months old. My father is also a manic depressive, who is gay. Depression and anxiety runs in my family.
As for me, I have anxiety sometimes and am frequently depressed, also i am pretty sure I have attachment issues. I took the Myers Briggs personality test and intj is my result, funny thing is I find it to know more about me than I know about myself.
I am over weight and find myself to be lazy. I do not like to talk with people because when I do I say something that messes up the relationship and I end up being very sad, and normally blame it on the other party for something I likely did. I can't stand hanging out with my father because I feel I am just like him and it irritates me, even though I try to make it a point to do things differently than he does, but I can still see him in my personality.
I have an online girlfriend that I love, yet she is a wreck and I don't think she will ever want to meet in real life, which has lead me to seek other things out in other place, which I don't want to do at all.
Online video games is what I do in my spare time, but I find I want to do something meaningful, yet when I try something I find I do not finish it, I cannot focus on something that is boring to me.
My focus is all out of wack, I want to do something, yet I lose interest very quickly. Examples, I have written children books, game stories, started a blog, multiple websites, tried programming (went to school for this and found out I was wasting my time, spent to much time and now I owe a ton of money), joined two teams in total to make a game but each has failed, tried to learn how to make a game myself but I cannot focus on it long enough to stay with it. Everytime I try to do something I get bored because I want to hang out with my online girlfriend, but when I am doing that I am extremely bored, yet I don't seem to do anything else.
I am always tired, bored, and depressed. I work as a fed ex courier, but I have a hard time being social with my co workers, mostly because when I talk to people I find flaws very quickly and think they are stupid, but they aren't, they are just flaws. I can't stand someone else thinking badly of me, or thinking my intellect is low, even though it quite possibly could be.
Well now that I typed it all out I would say I am a wreck. Can anyone tell me what is wrong with me?