As I know to my cost!
Having vowed in high school that I'd never marry, I've been married twice. I ran from my first husband because it was clear he was going to kill me if I stayed. He was extremely violent, and if I hadn't had friends to take me in I would've been dead in the 1980s.
My husband now... I believe in his good intentions and I'll never divorce him, BUT because of his autism spectrum disorder https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/a ... 3618311292 I can't be ME while living with him.
I'm fleeing to a The Bolt-Hole viewtopic.php?t=110117 because I want to be ME when I die. The coronahoax keeps delaying the move.
Interesting times. A fraction of us will survive it.