im up all hours of the night furious. heres the basic: my girlfriend and i been going out for 4 years, she cheated on me once but i took her back. im basically a loser with absolutely no friends (other than her) and no confidence. after she cheated on me, nearly everything she does pisses me off. i feel like i have to ask her everyday who she talked to, what they talked about, and then i just figured she'd lie about it if she was flirting/cheating. she always says it's just normal male/female chat everyone experiences (EXCEPT ME!!!!!!!!)....but then i look in her old year books and find signatures by guys saying things like " i wanna do you so hardcore" and "remember when we underlined all those sexual jokes in a book" and she always pulls out some explaination like "i didn't even give my yearbook to that guy" or "he was the one underlining all the jokes"...
she had a class movie she had to go see for a grade recently and i asked her if i could go with her, and of course she immediatley said it was impossible. after a lot of arguing she finally told me she would be uncomfortable with me being there because it would allow other people to get too much info on HER life...but what i really think is she doesn't want me there because she doesn't want ME knowing too much about her school life.
i dont' know if im jealous that she has tons of friends to chit chat with and i have no one, or if i just can't bring myself to trust her, but it's really been digging into me and i don't know what else to do. im terrible at making friends (and i mean TERRIBLE...ive tried so hard since ive been in college and i haven't 1 friend), and i feel like if i lose her...im going to lose my desire to be alive
but i also feel like all this arguing and me getting mad is going to definently lead to a break up, which makes me mad at myself for even getting mad. i just want things to be good with her like they used to..but i just don't know if i can
thanks for listening