the wisdom of the Lord Jesus

Relationships are the mirror where we see what we are .. many times what bothers us in our closest relationships are qualities that are also present in oneself .. Jesus said .. hypocrite .. you see the straw in the eye of others but you ignore the beam in your own eye .. neither more nor less .. you don't have to change anyone outside (or wait for someone to change]) .. one simply has to change oneself .. mutate .. evolve, grow, mature