Hi There, forum newbie here! Things are really awkward for me at work right now, and have been for a few months, with no sign of letting up. I work in a small office based organisation and have been in my role for about 5 years. A couple of years ago a vacancy came up on reception, so I told a friend about it, and went out of my way to help her in getting the job.
After working in the same building for the last 2 years, I noticed a number of character traits that I didn't respect in her, but chose to remain friendly and pleasant as we've known each other for over 10 years. However I found out towards the end of last year that she had been talking behind my back about my personal life (including a very painful break-up which I'd asked her to not discuss at work)with her line manager and several other colleges, who then discussed the matter publicly within earshot of my team members.
I'm disgusted with her behaviour, particularly as she denied blabbing despite irrefutable evidence. However I'm not the most confident in awkward or confrontational situations, and I'm now so uncomfortable at work that I don't even go into the staff kitchen any more
Any words of advice are welcome! Thanks x