by laureat » Wed Sep 06, 2017 1:30 am
You cannot "sell oneself" good enough if all you focus on is what you dont have
Sometimes all we focus on is the negatives about ourselves and that could somehow become a turnoff : it may push people away as you are the one not allowing them to see any positive about you
You have to allow people to see your positive side even if its not too much about it still could be enough to alow someone be happy around
Are the looks important to women? It could be
Is money important to women? It could be
Is intelligence important to women? It could be
Is the mindset you have important? It could be
There are lots of things that could be important to the woman but when she has to choose a man its not about what he doesnt have, its about what he have
If all you focus on is the negatives it becomes like an eclipse , you push people away