Punching myself in the face because I havent got no one

Tinkerbell1 wrote:Basically I hace this boyfriend who treats me like sh** all the time for no reason and I am starting to lose control every other time ice been upset or angry at him ive never hurt myself but last night I punched myself right near my eye and he didnt care and that makes me more angdy how do I stop ice tried talking to hin he ent listening im scared im goibg to do some real damage to myself soon and dont want to

Oh! Tinkerbell! You really lucked out!

Somebody had just submitted a Post -- "How Can I stop punching my head".... a lady named Morphine, and while I answered it, the really superb reply came from Katherin Palacio.

Your Problem is so much alike that I feel you will really connect to those Replies.

Oh, but I have one thing to add. Boys have No Sympathy for behavior from Women if they think it is, well, forgive me for using the colloquial, 'crazy chip' behavior. whenever a girlfriend begins to act, well, extremely NOT like a guy, well, the boyfriend will simply be made uncomfortable, and he will immediately try to detach from the situation.... look at his watch and remember that he is late for something.

it is not that Men are being deliberately cruel, thoughtless and callous. But men simply do not KNOW how to deal with what look like Nervous Breakdowns, They wish to go away and come back later and see if the problem somehow fixed itself.

Oh, you may be a bit lucky. Some Middle Aged to Older Men simply have no tolerance for Over the Top Emotions at all, and will simply break up on the spot. I remember I myself, I had gotten over 40 and a girlfriend called me, crying and sobbing. I hung up the phone and ran right over, thinking that it was a life or death emergency. it turns out that the Apartment Superintendent would not install her overhead fans for her. "YOU ROUSED ME UP LIKE IT WAS LIFE OR DEATH FOR THAT!!!???" I walked out and never called her again. A lot of guys simply do not want to deal with emotions that they feel, in their own Guy kind of way, are simply not justified.

Is it fair. Well, no. But guys are guys. And I have heard that even some Gay Girls have the same kind of Blind Spot as the guys do.

Anyway, bazaar, over the top and seemingly irrational behavior is a Big Turn Off for guys.

You need to control it, or you will scare guys away, for sure. Wish I could be more sympathetic, but the ugly truth is still the truth.

Are you willing to change?

Are you willing to forgive?

Are you willing to love yourself more?

Your emotions are out of control.
you need to control your anxiety and stress,.
Will punching yourself in the face fix your problem.
And is any guy worth it?

ok so I'm new on here, but I'm going to take a stab at this.

You are needing something emotional from your man. So you are asking him for support. Only you are asking by acting out... because as a woman - if you saw someone hurting like that you would love them, hold them, comfort them, cry with them. ONLY your man isn't a woman, they don't operate like that. You have to literally say "Babe, I feel awful and it's nothing you did but I just need you to hold me for a while. Wrap me up in your arms and let me hide from the world for a while"

In a caring relationship I guarantee you he will.

BUT perhaps the biggest problem is that you said he 'treats you like S#*! all the time'.

If this is not a supportive and productive relationship I would recommend you end it. Or seek counseling.