stalking?

Postby alleycat » Tue May 11, 2004 2:14 am

I have a question that maybe somebody could shed some light on.

I work in a fab shop in the office and there is a woman that I was/am

somewhat physically atracted to. The point is i am NOT really interested,

but, apparently my subconcious seems to everybody else around to be

indeed interested. Anyway the more I think about it the more I realize

that I sometimes make excuses to walk by or turn around and look etc.

I do not really no what to do, suffice it to say I would rather not have

these stupid impulsive (or compulsive) reactions everyday.

So if anybody has any advice or insight I would appreciate knowing that

I am not becoming a "stalker" because I really don't feel that way deep

down inside.
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Postby fathom » Tue May 11, 2004 7:30 pm

A nature reactiion (or action). Being attracted to someone need not be limited to the physical sense.

Mind and spirit are also ingredients. Mind - being communication, and spirit being closer to outgoingness.

Just because you have "some form of attraction" doesn't mean you are a stalker.

Myself, I have lots of friends, male and female and some I am extremely close to and share quite personal feeling with -- but our relationship isn't a physical one at all.
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