It does bring up an interesting point - about our own negative thoughts - We are told that our suggestions should be positive - but on the other hand, negative suggestions to ourselves are easily accepted?
I know it's a simplistic or maybe even spurious distinction but perhaps we should be saying "I look like an backside when I smoke" or "I'm an idiot to eat that much" or "What plonker doesn't do loads of exercise?".
Would these suggestions be more readily received?
. hmm
(n.b - one of the words above has been replaced which makes the phrase look a bit strange - in Britain it's considered acceptable language but I think the forum code was written in the U.S.)