why am i always single???

**Posts:** 2 · by **bluemuffin** » Sat Jan 10, 2015 7:26 pm

i am 18 years old
i am in college (not in my hometown ) and am single for a very LONG time
it seems that i am not able to form intimate relationships with the opposite sex
that makes me really sad and i usually feel lonely
when i visit my hometown sometimes i go out with friends and i have a good time but it's hard for me to let loose also sometimes i am moody and want to stay home all day for days and my mother is very judging about it
but always stay home waiting for a proposal to go out i seldom ask people to o out with me
i want to find a boyfriend and i can't
why??

**Posts:** 549 · by **McCain** » Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:11 pm

Get a hobby that involves other people. This is a good way to meet someone with similar interests.

**Posts:** 91 · by **jacob635** » Sun Jan 11, 2015 1:53 am

You say it bugs you that you are alone, like being alone is a bad thing? I think that if you become overly dependent on other people for happiness, then when you are in solitude (partner is at work for e.g.) you will feel extremely lonely and you will be even more uncomfortable than you already are now.

When you get to know yourself and are happy in your own company, only then can you gain the full benefits of what a real relationship is.

I agree with McCain that joining groups that share the same hobby as you is a great way to feel more comfortable.

**Posts:** 1158 · by **TheCloud** » Sun Jan 11, 2015 10:51 pm

bluemuffin wrote:my mother is very judging about it

Do you feel that your mother is a person who helps you be the way you want to be?

**Posts:** 2 · by **bluemuffin** » Tue Jan 13, 2015 6:16 pm

no she makes me feel bad about myself

**Posts:** 1158 · by **TheCloud** » Tue Jan 13, 2015 7:03 pm

bluemuffin wrote:no she makes me feel bad about myself

That sounds unhelpful. How does she do this?

**Posts:** 20 · by **DumSpiroSpero** » Wed Feb 25, 2015 7:42 am

You're young, you'll meet more people in life.. but remember you only live once so have fun.

**Posts:** 3 · by **rightmeow** » Tue Mar 03, 2015 4:15 pm

Hey, don't worry. Everyone had the same problem as you do. If you are afraid of communicating with girls in real life you should try online dating sites. That's much more easier. It will really help you with talking to girls. I can advise you this one ht tps://kovla. com/datings/us/worcester (remove space in ht tps) It's pretty good. Btw who knows, maybe you will find a girlfiend right there :wink:

**Posts:** 40 · by **TeeJee** » Sat Mar 07, 2015 9:02 am

It's time for you to mingle with other people. Love will not come to you if you only stay inside your home.

**Posts:** 39 · by **EdLee** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 7:52 am

Don't rush yourself. The time may not be now, but the right time will come.. you'll have the best relationship.

**Posts:** 34 · by **DrowningAlone** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 11:42 pm

rightmeow wrote:Hey, don't worry. Everyone had the same problem as you do. If you are afraid of communicating with girls in real life you should try online dating sites. That's much more easier. It will really help you with talking to girls. I can advise you this one ht tps://kovla. com/datings/us/worcester (remove space in ht tps) It's pretty good. Btw who knows, maybe you will find a girlfiend right there

Just FYI, the bluemuffin is a woman who would like a boyfriend, not a girlfriend. Read the original post.

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