I've never been a member in a group like this before, and I've also neer posted a message like this. I don't even know if I'm under the right topic. I've suffered from depression since I was about 17 years old. I'm 24 now.
I felt as if I finally had things under control when my boyfriend of two years broke up with me. We had lived together for over a year and I helped to raise his now 6 year old son. I have lost both of them. It's been about two months now but still hurts SO bad. This was the man I was going to marry. We were engaged in Feb. Our relationship was very normal, no major problems. Never, in my wildest dreams, did I think he would leave me. But he has. He has become a totally different person. He wants nothing to do with me, doesn't want me to see his son anymore and just wants to move on with his life. There is obviously more to this story, but the important part is, I really believed this person loved me. And now I'm wondering if they ever really did. Because I can't understand how someone who is supposed to love you that much could treat you this way.
I am not currently working. I am living with my father. I stay in my room as much as possible. Sleep is my only friend. I feel like I never get enough. I honestly don't want to wake up most of the time. I have thought about suicide, but I don't think I could go through with it. I avoid friends and family. I have neglected my responsibilities. I have stopped taking my meds. I am so tired of hearing everyone say "you'll get through this". I know I will. But it doesn't help to hear that right now. I don't want to piss my life away. I don't want to be bitter and never want to love again. How do I get back to being happy? How do I motivate myself to get out of bed and do things? How do I become okay with being alone?
I know what I should be doing. Why can't I just do it? I've had really bad episodes with depression before and I just don't want to get myself into a hole that I can't climb out of. It's SO hard to talk to someone about this that hasn't been there. That doesn't know what it's like to feel so sad all the time. I know a lot of it is my recent break up. But I can't help but wonder if the depression is making it worse. Any suggestions would be great.