by arcturus78 » Sun Dec 15, 2019 8:58 am
I know a friend exactly the same. Constantly falls out with everyone. She'll fall out with a person who she likes simply because they don't share her opinion on one thing. Then suddenly that person she's fallen out with will have a disagreement with someone else who my friend doesn't like, then suddenly she's the best thing since sliced bread again.....until the next time she says something that doesn't support her views.
She goes over the top over trivial things which then causes conflict. She reads text messages from friends out to me , and interprets them as negative. You can tell by the tone in which she reads them out. She makes them sound like how she would say it , with an aggressive tone when in fact there is nothing in the wording to suggest any form of aggression. She puts words into peoples mouths to.
Some of this is down to several reasons:
She doesn't like not getting her own way.
Her family are argumentative, and controlling. This is the norm for her now.
She's overly sensitive.So treats everyone with suspicion and thinks everyone is having a go at her.
Like with any action, think long term. How many people are going to support or be around in years to come when you're known as that rude argumentative person.