My friends and family see me as this strong person who has no issues sticking up for themselves. But this is partly true. Outside the workplace I can, but for some reason in it I revert into my shell and people think they can work over me.
My first job I was essentially bullied because I didn't feel good enough, I took on far too much of a workload and everyone just dumped on me. My second job I worked with really nice people so didn't really have to stick up for myself. My current and most recent job I've gone back again. I've only been there 2 months and the work is quite intense. One day I was given a slightly larger workload for a newbie, I felt comfortable taking it on but colleague and mentor shouted not to give me said workload because I wasn't ready for it..in front of everyone. I was humiliated and wanted to say something but for some reason couldn't bring myself to. My confidence just really takes a shake when it comes to the workplace and I hate that everyone thinks I'm the quiet pushover when outside of work I'm the opposite.
I'm so ashamed that I can't give myself the same self respect inside work that I do outside. It's as if I'm 2 different people and I don't know which one is the real me. I feel like a fraud and if my friends/family saw me in the workplace they wouldnt believe it was me.