My mother always talks to herself when she's angry.I mean if she's angry at someone because of what s/he did even ages ago, she usuallytalk to herself when she's alone in a room!It really bothers me especialy because sometimes I think she's angry at me!I've told her not to it again lots of time but she says I'm not talking about you.I think it's not important who's talking about, it causes others feel bad.But she insists that it's the best way to calm myself! I always try to help her to feel better.I mean I try to make har laugh.Try to make her think theworld and people aren't as bad as she thinks, but most of time it doen't work!I mean when I leave her she starts her negative thoughts.She's too pessimistic about what people say or do because of her bad experiences in past.And somehow I think it has big effect on me!Sometimes I think I should just think about myself and forget about to help her because I couldn't be successful in her case!
Pleas tell me if she's right.You know sometimes I recommend her to write about them instead of talking but she says I don't have time and energy to do that!