by wakinglife » Fri Jan 21, 2022 3:11 pm
Life After Weed
When I started this thread in 2006 I was in the same situation as many of you: I was ready to quit, and I needed some resources. This forum was such a breath of fresh air. I had found my people. There were others who had struggled as I had with smoking less of this "non-addictive" plant. It felt like I was not alone. I was able to see the low-key gaslighting my weed smoking friends had filled my head with (ex. It's good for you, man!) through clear eyes.
The benefits were apparent within weeks of quitting. Yes, it was also challenging. But I noticed a trend the more I read the stories of others. Those who found out they were not alone, looked for tips, and offered supportive words to other members, AND took the time to see some of the positives of quitting, did well. Folks slipped, relapsed, disappeared, came back.
There was a group of individuals who seemed to focus almost exclusively on the negatives: describing every ache, pain, and mental discomfort. Not to say their experiences are not valid: each person's experience IS valid. But some people seemed to stay there.
My invitation to anyone who is struggling: acknowledge the struggle, but also look for the good. There are benefits to being free from addiction to cannabis. As the weeks pass, you will find new, subtle benefits. Share those. Hold on to those as a prize you have earned for yourself.
Collectively, we benefit from sharing our lived experiences, negative AND positive.
Tomorrow will mark 15.5 years since I ingested cannabis in any form. I no longer have the front line view, but I have something to share about the long game. As I continue to post on this forum, I'm going to reframe my focus. I have a glimpse to offer of one person's experience of life after weed.
WL