loving being rejected?

I've got a question - why am I still falling for women who are supposed to hurt me? Sometimes I think that real love is just impossible for me to feel, because only these women who bring me down or reject me, attract my attention. And I wouldn't call that love, for me it's just a kind of unhealthy arousal that pushes me towards them. It annoys me, because I cannot go on with any serious relationship satisfying for both me and my hypothetical partner. Maybe I am a trivial case, in fact I wish I was, but up until quite recently I hadn't been inetersted in psychological issues. Is it curable?Thanks for answers. Thanks for answers.