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Nooskalie Bless you! You are not alone it's a harrowing experience and everything feels so so real but like me and everyone else you are suffering from fear. That is all. Relationship OCD. I know it's confusing and you spend every day trying to convince yourself but trust me that's what this is and ...

Hey Guys, I've not been here in a really long time as i felt like i had "recovered" but i'm back with a bit of hope! I've recently had OCD again except i'm not worried about not loving my boyfriend I've actually broke up with him for very good reason but i'm swinging between why i should b...

Hey Craic0624 First off I think that you being here kinda shows that you do love him you're just going through the same mix up we've all been through.... I mean people that truely don't love their partner don't google it up they actually know without panic, they don't question it like us. It sounds ...

Everything dontquitguys said is right, the key to getting better is accepting the thoughts they actually don't mean anything your feelings change and by making a conscious effort to be loving is what makes you a good person. Also throughout the whole ordeal your partner never changes only yourself, ...

Do you accept that your ill? or do you still feel that it's actually cause you don't love him? You need to come to terms with the OCD, it's all about guilt and confusion, but in reality the issue is not as big as it feels and doesn't need solving now like it seems in your mind. You need to try relax...

Hey caitlin05 your in the right place! First off, you will be okay! Things do get better if I was you I'd read through the last 3/4 pages of reponses cause there's a lot of information in there you might relate to and I may end up repeating myself. Although it can be apart of your need to look for r...

Didn't realise how behind I am on this thread! Kklue don't worry that it triggered you I think each of us are all in different stages off this OCD, slowly you start to gain realisation when you progress, you must be pretty deep in the ROCD. All of what you explained is what I went through I was terr...

I've been through the same! Not being able look at his friends, also getting jealous, missing him but then being scared etc, keep on the positivity! You're on the right track it is 100% the anxiety you just need ways of relaxing and don't feel bad for the thoughts that's the reason it hurts cause yo...

Bluefeelings25 that's great to hear it's true in life fears hold us back so if you look at them with the idea that they shouldn't be there and you need to push through them that it really good! The tablets sound good! I'm happy for you just keep moving forward! I dunno what you've told your partner,...

Purple69 Stay away from that counsellor! She will not do your spikes any good, I remember one day driving home to my Mums before work breaking down and telling her everything (before I really knew what was happening to me) and she was like ..... But do you love him? Lol I was like never say that aga...

I had the exact same thought! Like word for word! I used to think it was me just staying with him not loving him but it isn't! It's a really good thing, like it shows that you're starting to accept, at the end of the day you can't stop thoughts, if you try then you'll think about it more you have to...

Hey Bluefeelings25 i know how you feel, when it first happened to me i couldn't find any success stories accept one on here that seemed to be doing so well and really helped me! But the reason you don't see success stories is because people only really need to talk about it when they are looking for...

Hey Bluefeeling25! I'm so sorry you're going through this! And I know its a little cliché but don’t worry! Things do change, like 100%! I meant to come back here to update people but everyone else must be doing well, but I’m now off my medication, I have been for about 2 months and I’m doing really ...

i'm like 6 minutes off leaving work so i dont have a lot of time to say anything till maybe tomorrow but just to give you some reassurance (maybe not the best thing but it does actually help) but i would pretty much concider myself cured, i feel love for my boyfriend so hard i don't get mean thought...

Katemill63 - So happy to read your story 100% of everything you wrote is exactly like my story & i totally agree. i too worried that i'd never travel alone, and i'd be tied down, trapped and have to take the wait of some one else. I also could never find success stories! but also came to the sam...