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Hi everyone, again I'm looking for constructive criticism and advice, my mental problems have been well documented on here but I'm really in turmoil re my current relationship, and I really don't know whether I am turning into a male chauvinist pig, or my OCD is getting worse or whether something el...

Hi everyone, as usual I am looking for some help, guidance, reasons to carry on with my current existence. I have a great job, I have a girlfriend who loves me and yet my life seems to sink deeper and deeper into the abyss. My intrusive thoughts are getting worse and worse, and I know the worst thin...

Hi all, As the title suggests I am suffering more and more from intrusive thoughts and it has got to the stage where they are completely dominating my live, to the extent where I don't know what are my genuine thoughts or intrusive ones. It also is leaving me with a feeling that I am developing a mi...

Hi guys, I am obviously becoming a regular in these parts. I wish I could get a new head, since my one or at least the frame of mind my head is in is continuing to confuse me. I have so many thoughts and fears going through my head it really doesn’t leave me with any emotional energy left to focus o...

Hi guys, I know I have been a regular poster here but I have never felt this way. I accidentally cut a wire whilst mowing the lawn earlier and part of me wishes it had electrocuted me and finished things off. I am an absolute letdown, especially to my girlfriend or at least it feels that way. I have...

Tbh things have got worse today, I was out with a work colleague today and she introduced me to a friend who is a good looking girl and I couldn't not look at her without thinking you are hot, I should move nearer you to see if you move nearer me. I cant actually recollect if I moved towards her, ap...

Thanks for the replies guys, its interesting you say that, speaking to a sexual therapist earlier this week she mentioned about my creating really strict boundaries in my own head re being a in a relationship so I am sure you are on to something there. Re fantasies and attraction, I am probably suff...

Hi guys, I am sorry for the frequency of my posting here but I am again in real need of peer support. Right now in my life I should be on top of the world, I have a great gf, and have just been offered a new job. Instead I am feeling at my lowest ebb and really just want to go to my bed and cry and ...

Candid: I am not sure how "dangerous" it is but it is definitely something which I will mention to my counsellor, I think it is strongly linked to my general feelings of being worthless and not attractive etc hence why the fantasy is the complete opposite. Offplanet: Well I have been spend...

Thank you "offplanet". I can absolutely see your point, however I really cannot see many women, if any being comfortable with the idea that I fantasise about other women regularly especially if those fantasies tend to involve friends of either party. I am sure it would make them very insec...

Well I honestly think its nothing to do with the girl, though I appreciate your point. I believe and in fact know that I have had these thoughts in previous circumstances when i've been "going out" with other girls and I could go out with a supermodel but a part of my brain is wired at the...

Thanks tokeless for the response, no its something that has happened many times before taking the citalopram. My own amateur analysis is that because I didn't have a gf until quite late compared to others that my fantasies have developed into women being attracted to me, which is the opposite of how...

Hi guys, right now I should be feeling top of the world and very happy, yet I am feeling exceedingly confused, anxious and just generally feel like a let down and I am wondering if it is all worth it. Background story being that for the last 3 months I have been having counselling for depression, an...