Search found 365 matches

Right you have to take a risk and ask her like forsaken said.

Of course you could first spend a couple of meetings together, flirt a little, and maybe this will improve your odds. But at some point you have to ask her out.

I was pretty much like you when I was younger. I went in all directions. I lacked a purpose. You talked about school, but not about what education you have. If you find a job you enjoy, it can add a lot of meaning and direction to your life. I think that's a major point missing in your life: a goal,...

You're writing will get better with practice. Buy a really good grammar book, and besides that buy one or two Style Guides. Here's an example of style guide: http://www.bartleby.com/141/ Also, there are books on amazon.com about improving your communication skills. Overall, reading books will help y...

You definitely sound pissed off! One thing I noticed is that you sleep for a short time. Over time that can really get to you. Like you said, an other job and sleeping for 7 or 8 hours would be much better for you. 5 hours of sleep is totally not enough. (Some really old people manage with 5 hours, ...

You definitely sound like worrying a lot about things. So much that it's making you unhappy. If you like to read books, I recommend you buy some self-help books from amazon.com for example. Search for "anxiety cure" "cbt anxiety" "overcome worry" "cure depression&q...

I don't know, but it sounds like stress is causing these dreams or triggering them.

Try reducing your stress levels and triggers in your life. Cut smoking and caffeine if you can.

What also works great against stress is doing exercise 3 or 4 times per week.

Hi becca281996. You are expecting the worst from that phone call. But think about it for a moment. I don't know your parents, but things are going alright at the moment, so it seems you have kind parents. Kind parents will understand that you are afraid of going to school. Tell them that it's not to...

To me it sounds that you can get a better boyfriend. This relationships emotionally abusive. I don't know, but maybe this has to do with low self-esteem. I've heard that some women get emotionally ''addicted'' to abusive relationships. And this has to do with experiences in the past low self-esteem....

It sounds very good that your current fiancee supports you now. I think in time it will make a big difference. Deep down I think you have some negative beliefs about yourself, that were instilled or were made worse by these two boyfriends. What might help is using two exercises: Visualization and ch...

Sorry to hear that that medicine triggered some bad stuff for you. Now that you're in a depression you of course want to get out. I think it's a very hard thing to do. I won't make excuses about that. Somewhere, from deep inside, you have to find motivation to overcome your depression. A combination...

There are two pretty easy ways to be more successful with women. One is doing a lot of physical exercise and do some body-building. Many women are naturally attracted to good-looking muscled guys. Your body will do all the talking for you. Perhaps you might think it a bit shallow, but it works. The ...

It's very hard to change a person when that person doesn't want to change. But what you can do is keep talking to her. Maybe having some really good conversations will do her good. They say you totally accept her and won't judge her, but that you are really want to know what she's acting the way she...

Hi That guy. You're really young and anything can still happen; your personality is still being shaped and you're right in the middle of puberty/adolescence. But if you're unhappy currently about your life, this moment is a very good opportunity for you to change. First about the martyr complex. I d...

Hi Valmont. I know that hopeless and helpless feeling you have, I've gone through it myself. But have you ever tried doing self-help for your depression? Or have you tried doing CBT therapy for depression? They can help a lot. I'll tell you some stuff I know about CBT that might help you with your d...

I think you could be right about bullying in school made you more introvert and not extrovert, and yes maybe deep inside you are a real extrovert. If you're willing to put in the time and effort, I think you can make yourself more extrovert. First of all, I think you must challenge some deep-seated ...