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Re: Far from ordinary problem

Thank you again, Candid. I am eating this stuff up, I tell ya. My daughter's cancer is "the best" kind you can get - papillary thyroid cancer . She is waiting to hear if she'll need radiation... they're testing to make sure they got all the thyroid out. If so, she won't need it. Keeping my...
by Ordinary
Sun Jan 11, 2015 11:04 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Far from ordinary problem
Replies: 26
Views: 3621

Re: Picking a date to die

Thinking of you, Scott. Please respond.
by Ordinary
Sun Jan 11, 2015 4:06 am
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Picking a date to die
Replies: 15
Views: 3006

Re: am I a neurotic ?

I hate seeing a post unanswered and I'm no expert... but I want you to know you're not alone. I don't think you are neurotic... I think you have anxiety. I have it, too... and mine is health anxiety, like yours. And yes, this anxiety can cause the very symptoms you're trying to avoid. I know, it hap...
by Ordinary
Sat Jan 10, 2015 5:30 pm
 
Forum: Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Topic: am I a neurotic ?
Replies: 2
Views: 1069

Re: "...words* can never hurt .." a very PERNICIOUS LIE

I believe that language is very important... and powerful. I understand that the ultimate responsibility lies with the person who hears and takes in unkind words but I don't let the person who uses language to abuse off the hook. I strive to live a life that doesn't harm others and that includes the...
by Ordinary
Sat Jan 10, 2015 4:49 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: "...words* can never hurt .." a very PERNICIOUS LIE
Replies: 47
Views: 5387

Re: Getting over cheating

I will apologize in advance because I have some pretty strong feelings about this. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. You're not married, nor do you have children... and good thing! Cut your losses, take care of yourself and one day, you'll hopefully find a man who is worthy of your ...
by Ordinary
Sat Jan 10, 2015 2:55 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Getting over cheating
Replies: 7
Views: 1909

Re: How to avoid negativity when my parents are so negative

Terry94, I'm old, probably older than your parents... and it took me many years to learn that what my parents believe and how they act is not who *I* am. There will come a time when you're out on your own and will make a decision about how to move forward with them in your life... or to separate you...
by Ordinary
Fri Jan 09, 2015 2:21 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: How to avoid negativity when my parents are so negative
Replies: 11
Views: 4523

Re: Is my swimsuit inappropriate?

Since you're asking, you are doubtful. Since you're doubtful, don't do it.

as far as whether it's "appropriate" and what we "think"...it's not our call, it's yours. You know how you've raised your boys to believe about women and bodies. Their age will factor in as well.
by Ordinary
Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:37 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: Is my swimsuit inappropriate?
Replies: 8
Views: 2454

Re: FtM: a very unhappy life

If you're still around... You know, I tried to help you and gave you an excellent book idea, which you brushed aside because it wasn't exactly what you wanted yo hear. That's fine but you don't have to be rude about it. One way to move forward is to help others. There's a thread here called Am I Tra...
by Ordinary
Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:27 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: FtM: a very unhappy life
Replies: 25
Views: 4341

Re: I'm going to start treatment

dp2014 wrote:I really could do with some advice on what SRRI's that are most likely to work in my situation.


I have used several. Ciprolex seems to work best but it's the one I like the side effects of the least. It addresses both depression and anxiety.
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:39 pm
 
Forum: Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Topic: I'm going to start treatment
Replies: 9
Views: 3714

Re: I'm going to start treatment

Here's the thing, dp2014, I'm so sorry you're struggling and understand it very well. In my experience, until you get the meds or therapy going... you *won't* stop worrying. You are expecting to be able to control it by sheer will. Again, I understand it. I have been on and off my meds for years. YE...
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:37 pm
 
Forum: Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Topic: I'm going to start treatment
Replies: 9
Views: 3714

Re: FtM: a very unhappy life

Thanks for including that, Richard!

Lone, I hope you'll check it out. It's really good!
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:19 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: FtM: a very unhappy life
Replies: 25
Views: 4341

Re: Far from ordinary problem

I started reading Will I Ever Be Good Enough... ugh... I was going to tell you that I read both Bradshaw books for college, too (years ago). It's funny how I can push aside what is so obviously helpful to me... and I can now see that it was full-on denial. I did the same with my ex-husband, who was ...
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:14 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Far from ordinary problem
Replies: 26
Views: 3621

Re: I'm going to start treatment

Hi dp2014... I'm new around here, too, but not new to obsessive thinking. I will say that the meds helped me not to obsess *as much* but didn't take away the over-thinking aspect of my personality. Obviously, I don't know if your issue truly stems from what happened in the past but the point is that...
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:06 pm
 
Forum: Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Topic: I'm going to start treatment
Replies: 9
Views: 3714

Re: FtM: a very unhappy life

lonesoulxx, I don't pretend to understand transgender issues... at least not from an inside-the-body way. I get sometimes feelings that my body betrays me because I have a few health and emotional issues that sometimes feel impossible to overcome or "fix". I like what Richard has suggested...
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:02 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: FtM: a very unhappy life
Replies: 25
Views: 4341

Re: What to do with my life?

I was on antidepressants for over a year with no victory over depression so I lost hope in medical science to help me battle what can only be describe as a blankness, empty and void feeling. I think you were on the wrong antidepressants or at least the wrong dosage. Did you speak to your doctor abo...
by Ordinary
Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:47 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: What to do with my life?
Replies: 40
Views: 6573
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