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Its a bit confusing but i think it will make sense later. What i am not sure i am transmitting so well is the fact that i actually was feeling really good with myself, confident, etc until things didn't turned out as i expected them to. After that it just went completely off the window. I am also ha...

It does. Thank you for the perspective!

And make her miserable by leaving her altogether? Hell no. Also, we did NOT meet online. We met each other in an orientation (we are exchange students from different parts of the same country) and when i found out how close we would end up living (200km is very close in this sense) we got pumped. We...

Please. I need something. Anything.

I find myself returning periodically (every year or so) to talk about heartbreak and lack of confidence, a grain of sand compared to what i usually see on the forum, but feels just as bad for some baffling reason. But this time its different. So so different than the other times i came here desperat...

Thank you.
And sorry for all the mess.

you are mad at her and others because you don't have the guts? What?? What does being mad at her or others have to do with guts? Yes, i've deleted her about 3 days before starting this topic, joined a music competiton, been working on it up to 3 AM every day, its 9 minutes long now, been playing a ...

It really is good advice, on paper. I don't know if i have the guts to even try it after all that has happened. I can't even look at her without getting nervous/scared/angry. I'd mix words, get her confused and also annoyed, my hands would shake and i would pass out before saying "Can we go out...

I still like her very much, she is like a magnet to my eyes. I believe this is why i am still focused on her. The problem is that she is cold, rude, never responds me, says hi and quickly goes away, never looks in my face, etc. Over the last year i've tried everything to make it work. On the last fe...

Can you quit mocking me for one second? Go post your half-baked advices in the depression/anxiety section to see what happens. I am sure they will love to hear something like "its all in your head" "you are the one making things complicated" "its all in your head" from ...

That progression of thought was unexpected. Exactly what i was looking for! Thank you! But why do relationships have to always revolve around hint language? Hint language is the most unclear/unhelpful/confusing type of language i've ever experienced in all of my relationship attempts, and i am proba...

Oh yeah, you two are really great advisors.
For months i've been getting shivers just from seeing her, can you at least give me some helpful info on how to "fix" this?

Who is making it complicated is not the point. The whole point of this topic is that i can't find a way out of this frustrating situation even with all the effort i am investing. From talking to other girls, focusing my attention on other things to downright trying to avoid her... none of that is wo...

Too bad my situation isn't as simple as a "phone number" scenario...

Already been trying that, and its not working the way you would expect. I end up not caring about them at all and i am not noticing any signs of recipocration either. Besides, what is the point in pursuing girls you dont give a crap about?