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Re: Defamation

` Why not change your attitude about it to something like, "Who cares?" I don't think anyone really cares. People are generally into themselves. Men, in general, think farting is funny, and women, not so much. Let them laugh. Join with them in the laughter. Make friends over it, if the op...
by peaceful_soul
Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:45 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

I think it reasonable to assume that this is not the first time for you to grossly exaggerate whatever is taking place. People pick up on that and it quickly becomes tiring. Then people begin using it against you, teasing you, and taking opportunities to give you a difficult time. Why would they do...
by peaceful_soul
Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:38 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

Yesterday I had a walk in the city centre and it was very crowded. I walked for hours and I saw thousands of people and I didn't know anyone of them and I thought "all these people have never heard about that rumour, so the percentage of people who knows it is very small, compared to the whole ...
by peaceful_soul
Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:34 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

Why are you telling me these things now? Because you think that 1,000 people are not so many? Or because you think that I'm exaggerating about that number? Because I'm not and I can tell you why.
by peaceful_soul
Sat Feb 06, 2021 10:40 am
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

I think I will ask somebody to do that kind of interviews one day! Just to see how many people believe that.

Btw I'm not saying that 60,000 people have that idea about me, but I'm sure at least 1,000 people do have it. Especially among the youngsters. :-(
by peaceful_soul
Sat Feb 06, 2021 12:14 am
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

In my city there are 60,000 people, but really everybody in my circles believes it! I can never say "hey I know that person too" because then they will talk about me and this thing will come out. If I were a man nobody would say anything about it, but since I'm a woman then it's the first ...
by peaceful_soul
Fri Feb 05, 2021 10:10 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

I'm sorry, I wanted to write: I had never taken it too seriously in the past years, but now I absolutely recognize that I'm definitely doing it! And it's because the points 4 and 6 happened very recently and I can't believe that people still talk about it... it's because of this that I'm sure that t...
by peaceful_soul
Fri Feb 05, 2021 9:08 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

I don't think that it will follow me in another city, but I'm sure that in the city where I'm living now these rumours will go on forever. And people are infamous for many reasons in many cities and we don't know them all! I've never taken this situation too seriously, but I'm very worried now becau...
by peaceful_soul
Fri Feb 05, 2021 7:24 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Re: Defamation

Thank you very much for your reply, I really appreciate it. At that time I knew that they blamed me because in another moment I heard them saying it while they didn't know I was listening to them, but I didn't react. And during these 7 years I went through many events that made me think that everybo...
by peaceful_soul
Fri Feb 05, 2021 6:31 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

Defamation

Hi everybody, I'm 25 years old and when I was 18 I worked for a year in a company where I was victim of defamation. Precisely, my colleagues in the department where we were working used to fart a lot. At the time I was working there I knew that when somebody came in our department and I wasn't there...
by peaceful_soul
Fri Feb 05, 2021 11:20 am
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Defamation
Replies: 19
Views: 3842

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