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Friend makes me feel guilty

Hello all, Sorry for this long post that's about to come... Short background: So I don't live near my hometown where I grew up and where I have all my friends and family. It's an hour driving away, so we don't meet up that often. Two years ago my boyfriend and I bought the house where we live now an...
by CrystalMinds
Mon Dec 14, 2020 9:57 am
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: Friend makes me feel guilty
Replies: 2
Views: 2576

Feeling insecure and bad at new job

Hello everybody! A little backstory: I have a new job since September 2016, it's a job I (thought) wanted for years. I had to go through a year of hard training and had some trouble finding a good place near home. So since September 2016 I work closer to where I live now. Also, since that moment, I ...
by CrystalMinds
Fri Jul 21, 2017 12:57 pm
 
Forum: Workplace Psychology
Topic: Feeling insecure and bad at new job
Replies: 3
Views: 5787

How to be back the confident self I used to be

So there's this girl in my class, which is a part of my circle of friends in school (we just hang out with the same people) but she doesn't really like me. Maybe I'm just paranoid but it's just the feeling that I get from her. When we go out she takes a lot of pictures, not that many from me, in cla...
by CrystalMinds
Sun Feb 12, 2012 2:06 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: How to be back the confident self I used to be
Replies: 5
Views: 3802

Feeling like second choice friend :(

Hi, me again and my "friendship issues". So lately I got the feeling like I'm the "second best friend". I have a best friend, let's call her L. and she hangs a lot with another friend of hers: B. They hang out a lot, and sometimes it makes me jealous that they hang out that much....
by CrystalMinds
Sat Feb 04, 2012 6:15 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling like second choice friend :(
Replies: 0
Views: 1648

How I feel about myself depends on how others treat me

Hi I'm not feeling good about myself lately, not at all. They say: be your own best friend. Well, I think I'm my worst enemy. Anyways, the way I feel about myself depends on how others treat me. Like last night I went out with some friends from school, and I know one of them isn't too fond of me, wh...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:41 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: How I feel about myself depends on how others treat me
Replies: 5
Views: 3668

I wanna be like someone else,how do I be me and be happy I'm

I wanna be like someone else, but how do I be me and be happy I'm me? There's this girl, let's call her D. who I think is my best friend. She has a friend, let's call her A. who's probably one of D's best friends. I don't like A. She's overly confident, loud, sometimes a bit cocky, and acting all co...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Jan 18, 2012 12:04 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: I wanna be like someone else,how do I be me and be happy I'm
Replies: 4
Views: 4522

Thank you for your advice! In the future I'll just won't use the information someone gives me when someone told them something about me. I just hope she doesn't think I can't be trusted. It's also annoying that I keep worrying about it. I know I didn't do it on purpose the second time, and that I to...
by CrystalMinds
Tue Jan 03, 2012 6:49 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Bothered too long when smthing (bad) happens btween me &
Replies: 2
Views: 1159

Bothered too long when smthing (bad) happens btween me &

Ok, title was too long even after cutting out some letters. When something happens with my friends, when we get into an argument or I did something wrong, it always keeps bothering me so long. Like a couple of days ago, I told my friend D. what was bothering me. But if my friend R. hadn't told me a ...
by CrystalMinds
Mon Jan 02, 2012 6:57 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Bothered too long when smthing (bad) happens btween me &
Replies: 2
Views: 1159

I'm not bothered with it anymore, just with one person, but I'll tell her when we're both not that busy anymore. It's just, when my friend that knows about it, tells them, they'll be mad at me for not telling them. The reason why I'm not telling them is because I wanna forget the worries and things ...
by CrystalMinds
Sun Jan 01, 2012 8:45 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tell my friends what's wrong or start new this year?
Replies: 2
Views: 1339

Tell my friends what's wrong or start new this year?

There was something bothering me about two of my friends. And I told my best friend about it, but I was drunk so I overreacted a lot. Really, a lot. Now I spent NYE with them, it was so great, and I had such a great time! I'm thinking about forgetting everything and just starting with a new slate, I...
by CrystalMinds
Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:50 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tell my friends what's wrong or start new this year?
Replies: 2
Views: 1339

Answer to ur questions:
no, it's not weird.
no, it's normal to feel this way.

That better then?
by CrystalMinds
Wed Dec 28, 2011 11:00 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Curiosity or insecurity
Replies: 5
Views: 2853

Yeah that's true, and I'm meeting new people, but when it comes down to it, I bet they're all just like the rest :) Maybe I am too, I'm just seeing things in my perspective, I just see how they act and how I THINK I act. I just wanna talk to my friend about it but i'm scared she'll get mad or whatev...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Dec 28, 2011 10:50 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends
Replies: 7
Views: 6786

Re: Don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends

I don't really know where to start so I'll just spill it. I don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends. I would do so much for them, but they wouldn't do the same for me. Stupid (not stupid for me, might be stupid for you) example of this week: I wanted to have a drink with my 3 friends for my ...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Dec 28, 2011 10:35 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends
Replies: 7
Views: 6786

When your partner cheats on you, it stays in the relationship for a very long time, I'm just talking out of my own experience. I think you need to work on trust and honesty. If you need closure on this, it's a nice idea to talk to her about it. No interrogation like: ok, this and this and that I wan...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Dec 28, 2011 10:18 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Curiosity or insecurity
Replies: 5
Views: 2853

Don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends

I don't really know where to start so I'll just spill it. I don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends. I would do so much for them, but they wouldn't do the same for me. Stupid (not stupid for me, might be stupid for you) example of this week: I wanted to have a drink with my 3 friends for my b...
by CrystalMinds
Wed Dec 28, 2011 10:07 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Don't feel loved and appreciated by my friends
Replies: 7
Views: 6786
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