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Yeah congrats!!! I'm really happy for you that you'd al ovely day like that finally. It does sound like your making progress and you sound much happier so I hope it continues that way :D
by clickshic
Wed Jun 23, 2010 12:42 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

Telling your parents doesn't mean your a loser, it may feel like your losing face but if it means they can understand the situation don't you think that's much better than pretending all's ok. What did they say to you after you said it? Maybe you should try discussing the whole transfer thing with t...
by clickshic
Sat Jun 05, 2010 6:49 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

When you feel that strongly it's impossible to ignore such emotions, pushing them away only means they'll bubble up eventually. Your best bet is to get a sense of realism to it all so whatever the case you'll then know how much emotion to invest in it. That would probably be the closest way to getti...
by clickshic
Sun May 30, 2010 5:10 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How healthy is "Secret Love"?
Replies: 9
Views: 3688

I think it's strange that he expects you to buy stuff for him, that doesn't ring right and sounds like he's using you. If after a while he keeps spending time at your house yet you know nothing of his life, I wonder is it because he might be using you as an escape to bachelore life. If he constantly...
by clickshic
Sun May 30, 2010 12:58 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Really my best friend??
Replies: 6
Views: 1663

If this is eating you up inside so much why don't you try and say something to her. You say you haven't really processed how she feels but she'd be the best person to let you know about it. If she doesn't feel the same at least you have your answer and the guessing turmoil can then stop. I doubt she...
by clickshic
Sun May 30, 2010 12:29 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How healthy is "Secret Love"?
Replies: 9
Views: 3688

I came across this chat up line once: Guy: Hi, would you like me to get you a drink? Girl: Sorry I've got a boyfriend. Guy: I've got a fish. Girl: What?! Guy: Oh thought we were talking about unimportant things! :lol: Saw this scenario happen once. The girl's name was Stephanie and this guy came up ...
by clickshic
Sat May 29, 2010 11:54 pm
 
Forum: Light Lounge
Topic: Cheesy Chat up lines ..
Replies: 117
Views: 377222

When you come out of a long relationship, I think there's always a stage where you have to re-establish yourself. If your in the company of someone for so long, naturally how you interact with them influences how you see yourself. It's the same with close friendships, when that person is gone, the p...
by clickshic
Sat May 29, 2010 11:20 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: I feel like I've been royally f***ed
Replies: 2
Views: 1220

Heya, sorry couldn't get to a computer until today. You point out that you hate yourself...I think this is the real issue underlining all the others. Your weekends aren't as much about not having people to hang out with but the fact your going to have to be in your own company. Your feelings towards...
by clickshic
Sat May 29, 2010 10:24 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

I would agree with Datura that there are other females who would be interested. What ever her reasons you could still keep in contact with her on the net if you'd like too. However be aware that she doesn't want to take things further and clearly she doesn't want to get too personal so at best it wo...
by clickshic
Sat May 29, 2010 9:31 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to ask out
Replies: 2
Views: 906

Not necessarily something weird just something that intrigues you about something or something you've observed. I'm asking apart from your problems what else crosses your mind? You seem to spend most of your time observing yourself so you never seem to give yourself a break from your problems. Contr...
by clickshic
Tue May 25, 2010 11:11 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

I feel the same about it being used too flippantly. I guess for some people they just don't understand what it means, mistaking romance for love. I think if you really have experienced love before you realise there are stages to it and can identify what qualifies as the real feeling. When I've seen ...
by clickshic
Tue May 25, 2010 1:57 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The word "Love" gets used too often
Replies: 11
Views: 7183

Look I for one was not ignoring you and you should see that there are people here that you could become friendly with. You do have other people to become friends with, try the people here for a start. If you want to curse at me go ahead,say exactly how you feel just don't assume because the people h...
by clickshic
Tue May 25, 2010 1:09 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

Well I'm glad to hear you were feeling some what better.In regards the afterschools club I was on about, for me it involved helping with homework,playing little activities or doing some sports like soccer or obstacle courses etc. During the summer though after school clubs usually don't run. I don't...
by clickshic
Fri May 21, 2010 9:37 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

I have to say you do seem very angry. Would you not consider going to a therapist again to help you iron out some of your feelings if it worked so well for you the first time? If you hate weekends on your own so much why not try and give some of your time to volunteering. It might be just a few hour...
by clickshic
Thu May 20, 2010 11:30 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: the complication of a broken man
Replies: 83
Views: 14848

Well I'm glad you've decided on what to do, if it's getting to the point where it's wrecking your head like that it's not healthy and it's not fair on you. I hope it works out:)
by clickshic
Thu May 20, 2010 10:19 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: not sure if i feel the same way about my girlfriend.
Replies: 12
Views: 4921
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