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So why are you concerned about bringing this up with your parents? What do you want to hear from them or gain from the exchange? Do you feel it damaged you in some way? Does it effect the way you see your parents (sounds like mother in particular) to the extent that it is getting in the way of a goo...

It's never going to happen with him, you will never find out "what it would be like with him", so move on and find out what it would be like with someone else who is a real person in your life and who actually finds you attactive (he didnt). Keeping it as a little sexual fantasy is fine, b...

How does a female 'make' a male smash his phone, 'prevent' him from going out with his mates, 'make' him remove all his girl friends from FB.... ? And this was happening very soon after they got together by the sounds of it. No this isnt domestic abuse, this is a man choosing to comply with a woman ...

Maybe try shifting your focus away from (perceived) differences on to what you share in common, starting from the basis that we're all human beings trying to get on as best we can in the world and we all get a bit f***ed up along the way. Some of what you descirbe sounds similar to a social anxiety ...

zero friends.
Thats takes some balls to say. In this world, where numbers of friends trumps all (not really but that's the image).

What are your interests/passions/hobbies? Music, art, intellectual, physical, etc etc? What do you still find beauty in, connection in? In this lonely lonesome world.

I've no interest in discussing religion. I am interested in discussing the possible psychological antecedents to your mode of controlling people via violence, threat of violence, fear, intimidation. Your Christian upbringing may well be one model you had. Your parents' methods of disciplining you ma...

So as a kid you were indoctrinated at school and via media with the 'Christianist' god and bible stories/teachings, is that correct? You didn't say when you (approximately) became an atheist.

Atheist as well anti-theist? So when did you become an atheist? What was your parent's religion? Surely you were raised in a family or wider society that had a dominant religious tradition? Which religion was it?

So how do you discipline your wife? For what things?

You referenced Noah. Are you a Christian? Do you go to church? Just curious.

Was the girl in love with the fake persona? How did you leave her?

My son put his fingers on the eye sockets of a cat and caused the cat to bleed. My son used a pole against a turtle. Inflicting violence upon physically smaller, weaker creatures... where could he have modelled that behaviour from, do you wonder? People who believe "sparing the rod spoils the ...

So let me get this right: for you acceptance is incompatible with wishing to see change? Is this really what you are arguing and advising people here? In a definition of Love as Acceptance, Allowing, Giving Space To Be — In giving another the space to be as they are, one does not have critical think...

And there is no such "you can't help a non-musilm", please try to don't harm the Islam reputation, - NobleWolf. " Indeed, those who disbelieve - it is all the same for them whether you warn them or do not warn them - they will not believe. Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and u...

In my previous post I addressed what I am seeking. You are asking for help in fixing someone who hasn't asked for your help in getting fixed. You say you accept her, and then you say things aren't going as you'd like them to go with her. So, which is it, really? Know right here that you can't fix h...

No not quite. I have accepted who she is a long time ago. It is just that she has a string of behavior that has gotten worse for her own good. Like losing all her friends, alienating herself from family, failing/dropping out of school, and now meeting someone online in another country and going thr...