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Hi, the questions you raise in your thread are the types of questions that most people have thought about, wondered about and force themselves to quickly dismiss. The reasons are varied but most are down to them not wanting to admit that they have even thought about them as they may feel that that c...

It could be the equivilent of a tick.
If he is as anxious as he sounds then those anxieties could manifest in that way. Does he also stutter?

Either way, his close friends will understand and compensate everyone else don't matter.

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Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry hun............. Were you really close and do you have a lot of happy memories? Maybe Sharing with us some of those thoughts may allow you some form of solace. I know they can't change anything for the better but it may allow for some form of release. My thoughts and wishes are...

Have you asked her straight out? There are far too many maybes and if's to be healthy. You still long for the relationship you once had and she may view you as someone that she still has affections for, so you both don't know what you really want so will end up going around in circles. Lay your card...

Hi, The old chesnut, a "Mummy's boy", too immature and nowhere near your equal. The worst bit for me is how he behaved while you were/are sorting out your illness. If he was committed then he should have shown it then, and your alarm bells should have been going off ten to a doz. Sit him d...

Hi, I know where you're coming from and how it must all seem to you, but your logic is badly flawed. Even if you could wave a magic wand and change whatever you feel needs changing outside of you, do you honestly believe hand on heart that you would be happier inside? You deride the benefits of coun...

Coberst,
Someone took the trouble to reply to your post and your only response is to recount other people thesises?

I think you would benefit from investing your time in more social pursuits instead of wasting ours.

Hi xxv4 There is one paragraph that seems to stick out for and it is this one; "What I need to know is that whether I should confront her & force her to remember how we were & that her current personality is just a "safe Place" for her to hide or should I just acept her as she...

Hi, I have said from the begining that your post maybe more about you than it is about her. A point which seems to have filtered down to you going by your last post. I don't agree with voicing my own persoanl skeltons on here as people wouldn't post here in the first place if they didnt want to expl...

Footnote; i have just added this article to my blg but after i read it i thought some people on here could benefit, so here it is. Please add to this post, regardless if you agree or not, thank you. The Missing Piece Theory. I have observed a similar set of behaviours of late, either from articles w...

I don't think the debate is so much what give us our behaviours but is there a way of seperating one possible cause from another. There is research that indicates that Diabetes can be linked to the childs parent's gestation in the Grandmother. But can a behaviour be truly passed down by genes alone....

hi, I get the impression that this sad tale and how it panned out may say a story about you. If you were in a happy relationship then why leave it knowing what her history was like? You may have not known immediately but it would have come out before you got married? The upshot is this woman needs h...

Hi, Maybe you need to ask the same question in reverse? It tells me that you are not sure about how people behave, nor do you seem to be able to trust your own instincts. I would suspect that you may even suffer from some form of anxiety due to a lack of confidence. Then again you could accuse me of...

Hi Snd As you maybe aware Phobias are an irrational fear so therefore your last comments must be also. You need to understand where your anxiety comes from and not worry about what form it manifests in, as that is just as irrational as the phobia itself. Don't worry if you can't isolate the issues a...

Hi, Lisa, please dont take this the wrong way but :lol: Ive said this a couple of others on here and without meaning to sound harsh again but........ Dec you are going around in circles, this is your choice and one which i respect, so why can't you do what you need to do and stop wasting our time?