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Thanks for the replies. You have some points that I agree with. My husband can find someone who will be intimate with him, passionate with him...etc. However, I told that to him already, I never hid anything or any thought. This is why it is so strange and I am clueless. He says he loves me regardle...

I'm back again, with same problems.... Married to a guy for ~ 5 years. On year #2, I left him (were still roommates) and I had a couple of boyfriends. In those relationships, I could feel lust, and I felt alive. However, they did not last long and I ended up alone, but not divorced yet.... I had a s...

Joe and Chickita,

Thanks for your advice. I will try to sort of combine both.

i am not taking him for granted BUT i am willing to lose him if things keep on bothering me. At the same time my guilty conscuos is at work. If we have such huge differences; then no matter how much i realize i want him to be my husband, we should call it quits. It even might feel good if he makes t...

Yes Poppy, I AM settling for him. But there is a good reason for it. I realized that the romantic relationships only wear me out, and love/passion etc..... is really not for me. I feel that I've had my share in that area and now I am at a point in my life where I KNOW that these feelings only cause ...

Hi everyone. I had a previous tread about my broken marriage, and the seperation, the boyfriends I had,...etc.... (we dated for 2 years, got married and after 1 year of marriage we broke up but never got divorced; and after 2 years of seperation we are back together again) It has been a while now an...

I do not think there is a nicer way of putting this: I think your mother in law is crazy, and she is pretty much obsessed with the way she looks and she is obviously jealous of you, AND she is very spoiled. I do not know how you put up with this kind of behavior. Being a sensitive person, those comm...

I think the letter he sent you is not a nice one. He knows how you felt back then and if I were to break up with someone that I KNOW loves me; then I would simply let him go and would avoid making him think of me. I would do that even if I am greatful to that person in many ways. If he wanted you ba...

I agree with Poppy, be careful but in the meanwhile, enjoy the attention. Now, about being careful part: I think you are over analyzing the whole thing. He might just be a guy who says every single thing that happens to cross his mind at that instant. That does not mean he will actually pursue what ...

This man will only get worse. You need to get out ASAP. Go to the police, and keep him away from you and the baby. If I were you; I would be on the first plane flying back home and deliver the baby there. I know how hard it is to be in a foreign land, and you need your friends and family at this tim...

I've heard of couples like that. I think they call themselves "asexual".

Kitty, I think I understand what you meant when you said you miss him so much when hes away... Im away from my man at the moment and I find myself thinking about him so much more, wanting him next to me, close to me... if anything, I guess the distance does make the heart grow fonder. I cant wait u...

I think he is still verbally abusing you. I used to be with someone like that; and he was obsessed with me... but to him it was "love". It was not. At the time, I was also convinced that it was love. I think your bf is simply obsessed with you, and he does not see you as a separate human b...

How is your relationship other than the sex part?

I respect Calvin's decision, but I am very sad to see him go. A very insightful and a nice person. This is a good-bye post, so please do not carry the fight here.