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I've not been tested for ASD, as for C-PTSD, HR at my current workplace mentioned that as a possibility also. I have wondered about ASD, my family mentioned in passing once and I've been compared to "Sheldon" from big bang before; but I'm not that bad or smart :) I looked up C-PTSD and con...

From an outside perspective the question has to be what you did to make this group dislike you so much. I believe you that you don't know, I'd have to ask them. You're probably going about that open-plan office not making eye contact and never smiling, and that's understandable with what's going on...

there are people actively trying to put people off me from the start. I ... worry that someone from Workplace A has targeted me and is getting to people at Workplace B. Seems unlikely to me. Sane people have no interest in Mr Unpopular once he moves on. Besides that, you've been at workplace B sinc...

You did not answer the question. I wonder why? Which question, why they think I'm a Narcissist? That is easy, at Workplace A I believe I was accused of setting up a project to fail and that was the first time I heard the term. There was absolute outrage and people even shouted out "paedophile&...

Hi, it has only been two workplaces A and B. I'm on very good terms with my family members, we are a close family they are my closest friends. I did have some good friends and was invited to be best man at one friends wedding which I was honoured by. Unfortunately, I do struggle making new friends. ...

I'm an electronics engineer and doesn't require much social interaction, but there is some. I tried to avoid it as much as possible until returning after therapy, since than I've made an effort to interact more.

Hi this story is quite long so I'll try to give a cut down bullet point version of my situation. 2015: I was falsely accused at workplace A, I never got to here what I was accused of but there was a lot of hate directed at me. One of the things I was called was a narcissist. I know I did nothing wro...

Hi, I've a simple question but first a brief history to put it in context. Background : I had a very bad workplace bullying experience that lasted about a year, which amounted to character assassination. I left the company for a new job after having a break. For the past 2 y 6 months, roughly, I've ...

I went though a very stressful workplace bullying situation a couple of years ago, this lasted around 1 year. The company I worked for before that also bullied me to the point of leaving; but I moved on. Since this last time however I've just been struggling with life; not really enjoying much, more...

It is number 1, but it isn't so easy as now I don't have confidence to go to interviews. I just don't know if I can do my job any more and I just don't know what I'm going to do. I'm just so angry that everyone seems so willing to believe such lies and behave so badly.

Hi Again, I posted in this forum just a while ago at problems at work, http://www.uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=92988 . A while ago I worked out that a rumour is going around that I'm a narcissist, lying, manipulative and not to be trusted and sounds like to me that they think I set up these pro...

Yes, I've definitely felt like I didn't fit, but then I've never felt like I fit anywhere; not just at work. Even with people who share the same interests, I've felt like I'm missing something. My job wasn't just something I did for money, I did it because it was a passion; now I'm not sure I can ca...

Yes, I've thought the same thing. However, It is the only area I've excelled at, I got first class masters degree, won performance awards and got invited on a PhD; that isn't enough to convince me. At the moment I don't feel like that person, the best way I can describe is my mind is in a fog, If I'...

Just read up on the Milgram experiment, interesting. I obeyed my orders even though I knew it would end up reflecting badly on me; I told them what I thought needed doing and they didn't want it done. I didn't feel I had much choice and although I felt like I was being set-up I put it down to being ...

OK, this is more complex than I thought; I expected I would get honest feedback when I asked for it. It feels a bit like a vicious cycle, due the constant badgering I can't focus and had to rely more heavily on the colleague I work with, which I guess from what you say would make things worse. Thank...