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You still have your whole life ahead of you. Many people change careers in their thirties and many women still date in their thirties. You can find a man in his thirties or forties that will be interested in you. You still have your youth, life doesn't end at thirty, it gets better. You have reache...

Thank you very much for your replies! Regarding therapy: It's the first time I've ever seen a therapist and I have no idea how to determine if we're on the right track or not. I'm not in the US and switching is a bit difficult because of my type of health insurance (not impossible though, of course)...

Two things going on: -1- You seem to think life is an event, not a journey. -2- You are defining happiness external, by what you believe others think or want instead of internal by what you think or want. You did sum that up perfectly. And I LOVE the story about the person on the train, thank you f...

Oh, by the way: What I also think is contributing to the issue is that I somehow don't focus on how I feel, what's best for me. It's all a bit focused on how others would/could perceive me. I want to look and be perfect for others because I think without other's admiration and approval I will never ...

Thank you so much for your helpful replies! They really did make me think. I tried very hard to analyze where this belief is coming from. I think (and I hope you won't be "mad" at me for saying that so openly) that along the way I've adapted the belief that a woman is worthy as long as she...

Hello everyone, I want to thank everyone in advance for reading my post. I hope you can offer me some advice :-) I'm female and recently turned 31. About 1.5 to 2 years ago my life started to fall apart. I got fired from my very first full-time job out of nowhere, been stuck in an abusive relationsh...