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Candid Thank you! When she did cancel dates, just to be clear on what happened. It was according to her, because of her anxiety, and that she felt really bad. Usually referring to a black clay on her chest and that she just needed to be alone, she also suggested other days instad and we spent those ...

Question...you want a family, children one day?[/quote] I really didn't understand it was this complexed. And now as I speak to you it makes me really really sad knowing this. Of course I would like a family and children, it is one of my dreams. It has always been a lifelong goal. I thought depressi...

Okey. I understand and I appreciate your concerns. Life is about lessons. This is another one to keep in mind and throw in the backpack. But just to clarify. You are basically saying that having a relationship with a depressed person is a No Go and that you basically need to cut a person off as soon...

To avoid a similar situation? Are you talking about new experiences in the future with other women or are you addressing to being in a similar situation with this very same girl? For instance, I would never accept this behavior in a normal situation, I would basically just walk away and be done with...

I want to thank you for your replies. Its been very helpful in this stressful situation. It feels like I have made a fool out of myself. I just really believed her expressed feeling for me, And that we had something that was worth fighting for. I have been raised to be understanding but I think this...

Yeah as I said, I just found out about it just a couple of hours ago. The " relationship" is over for a couple of days now so there isn't any point of analyzing this lie. But its actually good to hear you say that. That while depressed nothing could drag you out. Gave me a lot of perspecti...

Oh and one other thing. Just an hour ago, my friend told me that he had seen her two weeks ago partying with friends. He didn't know we were in the situation we were in. Now, I know that I'm not supposed to take anything personally. But the thing is, that very day, we were supposed to meet up and ta...

"It’s about being open to what you can learn from the experience, what can you do different in the future." Thank you Richard. I know you weren't trying to beat me up. If she gets back in touch, I will definitely give it another chance if that is what she wants. It felt as if I was speakin...

Yeah I guess i missed that part. Have directed my focus mainly on the studies about how they feel. Why they push away and how I can be supportive to someone going through it. I obviously made a misstake there. I didn't know blaming and manipulation was a part of it until now. Please be a bit underst...

Thank you Richard for your response. The thing is, you might be right. But I really didn't treat her like that in the beginning of her sudden change and cold behavior. I was pretty calm. Knew she was under stress. It was when her friend told me she was feeling very bad, and all the signs became obvi...

So, let me get this out of my chest in the shortest possible way so you can understand what I am struggling with. A few months ago I met this wonderful girl. We talked a lot over text and where in touch pretty much every day even though she cancelled dates in the very last minute a few times. She to...