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It sounds like you are afraid of being vulnerable. You are afraid of being hurt or of not being what people expect and so you end up hurting them. I had the exact same, I pushed so many people away that all my acquaintances never became friends and I was never really close to my family. You are afra...

Your opinion of yourself becomes self fulfilling. If you think that you are creepy then that is what you will sub communicate to others. You are constantly telling others what you think of yourself with your body language, your posture, your vocal tonality. Fake it till you make it, you will start a...

I really recommend the book "The War of Art". Also notice when you self sabotage. It seems like you are attached to an identity of "being a loser", the person who doesn't get results. You know how to be the person that copes but you have no bearings of how to act if you are the p...

You are afraid and nervous because of the unconscious beliefs you have about yourself and others. Don't beat yourself up for it though! This is such a common fear. There is no better recipe for suffering than to make your problems 10 times heavier by telling yourself that you shouldn't have them. Yo...

Your fear is fuelled by your underlying beliefs about yourself and about her. You think that you are imperfect and that you can only get her if you are perfect. You think that you have to be someone you are not and you are nervous because you don't know how to adopt this fake persona you think you h...

You afraid in social situations and you push people away because of the unconscious beliefs you have about yourself and others. It sounds like you have issues with being vulnerable and exposing yourself to others. I would have similar problems, I would mumble all the time and I would try to run from...

You are shy and afraid in social situations because of the unconscious beliefs you have about yourself and others. I used to be incredibly shy myself too. I would mumble all the time and I would try to run from social situations all the time. Letting go of these beliefs and the fear that comes with ...

Hey man, you talk about feelings that I can really relate to. I hope that I can articulate the ideas that helped me out massively. Your insecurities stem from beliefs yourself and others. Letting go of these beliefs and the fear that comes with them is a process that takes time but it can be done. 1...

Great post, I completely agree. Insecurities stem from unconscious beliefs you have about yourself and others. Letting go of these beliefs and the fear that comes with them is a process that takes time but it can be done. It is scary to do so though, you have been acting in the world with these set ...

You are insecure because of the unconscious beliefs you have about yourself and others. Letting go of these beliefs and the fear that comes with them is a process that takes time but it can be done. 1. Understand where these beliefs comes from 2. Take action 1. Your insecurities stem from your under...

Perhaps this is caused by the unconscious beliefs you have of the situation. Perhaps at some level you feel that you are not worthy, that people want you to fail, that people think poorly of you unless you prove them wrong... This is very common, these are beliefs that you acquire in order to protec...

You are afraid and nervous because of beliefs that were put there as a child. Letting go of these fears is a process that takes time but it can be done. 1. Understand where this fear comes from 2. Take action 1. This fear comes from your underlying beliefs. Even though you might not be aware of it, ...

I think that the best way to achieve long term confidence on stage (and not just use tricks which are bandages over a hige problem) is to 1. Understand where this fear comes from 2. Take action 1. This fear comes from your underlying beliefs. Even though you might not be aware of it, you probably un...