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Re: Is this projection and how do you deal with it?

Okay. We've not been in contact with each other since (apart from her sending a Christmas card which did make me feel angry that she could hurl all that abuse at me and then try to "smooth it over" with a "Happy Christmas" like she'd forgotten ever dismantling me and our mother a...
by loubyloo
Sun Feb 21, 2021 7:54 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is this projection and how do you deal with it?
Replies: 4
Views: 1544

Re: Is this projection and how do you deal with it?

Thank you Richard. Those are very sensible suggestions. I guess I'm just juggling all sorts of emotions about this: anger, confusion, hurt.... I want to discuss this with her but I'm afraid that it will just degenerate further if I do.....and she's not made any attempt to backtrack on any of her acc...
by loubyloo
Sat Feb 20, 2021 11:37 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is this projection and how do you deal with it?
Replies: 4
Views: 1544

Re: Being over dependent in a relationship

I have no psychology qualifications whatsoever, but I would say that being over-dependent may eventually push your partner away. I know you say you don't feel jealous and you don't distrust him, but maybe put yourself in his shoes. If you cannot explain why you need this constant attention, he might...
by loubyloo
Sat Feb 20, 2021 6:36 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Being over dependent in a relationship
Replies: 3
Views: 3007

Is this projection and how do you deal with it?

Several months ago, my relationship with my younger sister disintegrated. She had phoned me one evening and then started complaining about mum. Mum (early 70's) is going slightly deaf. My sister said she ought to get hearing aids. I agreed that it might be helpful, but said it was really Mum's decis...
by loubyloo
Sat Feb 20, 2021 5:20 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is this projection and how do you deal with it?
Replies: 4
Views: 1544

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