Could you consider answering: What gets me into pretending to people? Is it because I want to appear in a way bigger than I really am, or I don't want to own up to who I really am? because i feel like i am not good enough i tell myself to fake it. i am scared if people know who i really am, they wi...
How can one overcome fear of judgments? There are certain judgments you fear...not every judgment...or at least there is a certain type of judgment you fear more than others, e.g. your physical appearance, your ability to socialize, etc. I am mainly concerned about my social skills , i don't know h...
How can one overcome fear of judgments? i am always so scared of how people are going to see me. mostly i am in my own head thinking to myself how stupid and hopeless i am and i feel like as if people can see through me which leads me to try so hard to cover that with niceness and fake smiles. also ...
Hi everyone I am wondering if taking a public speaking class will help to improve my communication skills? I have fear of speaking not only in front of a big group but even in a small group. Could be even in a small circle of friends . I recently had to do oral presentation in uni and I was shaking ...
Hi, I hope you are feeling better, I read your post and I feel like we have so many things in common. I am a foreign student in Australia and have to do the same thing as u. Go to uni, work and also pay for Bill's. I know how hard it is to kinda of find your place and fit in in a new country with a ...
Hi everyone Please need some advice I have oral presentation in a week time and I am panicking. I am not good at speaking even in one to one conversation and don't know how I can ever do this. Every time I do oral presentation I need up shacking and no one can hear I am talking about. I want to be a...
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"In one of your replies to a persons comment, you said that being short felt like you were living half a life. The truth is, if you let yourself believe that, then by belief, you are living half a life. This belief is supporting you to make that so and everything you do that is done through thi...