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Does that mean you do something you dislike for a living? X It's not that I dislike what I do for a living, it's more of I can tolerate it. That said, I can't say I particular enjoy it and I wouldn't want to do it on weekends but it's ok. For me it is worth it since I can then be able to do exactly...

Get a career that is actually in demand now if you want to stay employed and leave photography as a hobby or a way to potentially make some extra money. Work is called work for a reason. Sorry to be harsh, but in my opinion it is better to do something unpleasant for a living to live pleasantly than...

"Avoidant personality" is just a term that you have coined for yourself. In reality, it is probably nothing more than social anxiety. To be fair, it is much easier to avoid talking to people and just sit away alone like a hermit. The problem is, that humans are very social creatures, and i...

julius is sincere. well as far as i can tell. umm i'm not sure exactly why but he does seem to generate a lot of push back or hate from posters he is genuinely trying to help. a lot of his stuff is just very general i guess. very big or perhaps abstract. actually i will go with broad. his words add...

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Bored wrote:Like no offense, but at this point I really think that you're either trolling or you consistently ingesting hallucinogenic substances before you write each one of these posts...

What is your instinct telling you?

My instinct is telling me that you're probably doing a little bit of both.

well here's how i see things. i'll try to be nice, i hope i don't make assumptions, act to judgmental or anything. but sometimes, you just have to be honest with how you see things. yes i think it's something about yourself. & i don't mean that in the sense that there's something inherently wro...

Loving yourself, loving everyone else and loving this moment is what we are born with as children, we are taught not to have unconditional love by people who did not have that love for themselves, and we can retrace our steps back to it. Like no offense, but at this point I really think that you're...

That's your issue then, it shouldn't feel strange at all to ask one person to hang out. I'm just going to assume you feeling "strange" is a sense of humiliation? Personally I feel like you should open up to people in person more often, assuming you haven't already. Unlike you, others who ...

Boared, you completely missed Julie's point about the dogs . Do you wonder why your getting the same advice from some very knowledgable professionals? Don't spend so much of your time focused on you and your perceived problems. But we both know as do many others...that won't happen. Yes, you need t...

Reading this, I'd say you almost sound proud. You should be. It's obvious you know that you're greater than most simply by the post. You say life is boring, then make more effort. Go up to people, pretend, and talk to them. Either that, or figure out how to make yourself more approachable other tha...

anyhow you say that the current environment is no good but that you have to be there a year. then you say please don't tell me to wait it out. i'm just not sure what to tell you then? get a new environment? is that possible? or perhaps get a new attitude towards your current environment? You see, b...

You ever seen or heard of a friendly Labrador being socially awkward, depressed or bored? You ever seen or heard of a friendly Labrador committing suicide? Two simple sentences from Julie, but they pack a double barrel of insight. I would suggest taking these two sentences, type them out in 36 pt. ...

i don't know much about your college obviously so i'll just have to take your word for what it's like & what the people are like. Oh I'm glad that somebody finally admits that they don't fully understand my situation and won't tell me to suck it up or have a better attitude... Oh wait, but you ...

JuliusFawcett wrote:Can you choose your next thought?

I already answered you.. Scroll up.

Yes, all you would really like is to be happy, and all the happiness we could ever enjoy is already within us, it is just behind the thought patterns to do with fear, anger, jealousy, blame, guilt, tension, stress, resentment, sorrow, frustration, irritation, criticism and we can let those negative...