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Day 64 . Delighted . No return for me I’m through . Sleeping well . I feel normal . However , and this is the only down side . I realise now that I wasn’t that f***ed up at all from it . My function has not increased , as I had a good handle on things anyway and was always a smoke at night guy , nev...

That thought had crossed my mind . I also think I need to make my heart less available to her . A subtle reversal . I must be clever though , as anything to blatant would be obvious also . Little but little I am going to tighten my ship emotionally . Ironically I stopped talking about the business b...

I will have to be more clear , I’m not a lotto winner or a beneficiary of inheritance, I’m working class And have had success as well as a few failures within the SME sector . Humble... I am proud that I can afford to give my kids the option of a collage education , or the first foot on the property...

I fully agree . Hence the counseling process . We both admit to being poor communicators , though we both respect we are both hard working and Have a lot to show for it , and potentially a lot to loose . A lot of people seem to frown upon therapy / counseling. To my mind In this case - it’s a case o...

She has said the above . Then I front of the councilor/philologist in therapy said she’s not menopausal at all . Then she admits to irregular cycles , has started taking all sorts of Supplements offered from “dr menopause “ of Instagram fame ... But is not menopausal .. I suggested she should get a ...

Thank you for you reply . I am on one hand hopeful the councilor ( who is also a clinical philologist, amounts other things ) finds out why the reason for the drift is there . I agree there has to be a reason . Then on the other hand , I am terrified his work will uncover that reason - and it will b...

Sitting on my couch , about to go to bed with my wife who doesn’t love me anymore . How bizarre is that ? Every marriage is different, and the situation you describe is far from bizarre. After 20 years plenty of marriages go stale. Couples stay together as long as they still have good will towards ...

Sitting on my couch , about to go to bed with my wife who doesn’t love me anymore . How bizarre is that ? Every marriage is different, and the situation you describe is far from bizarre. After 20 years plenty of marriages go stale. Couples stay together as long as they still have good will towards ...

...and we are just about financially secure - with 2 investment properties for the kids ( 1 small house each ) My work related stress was key to the bust up. My two cents... Let’s accept 100% the faults you have observed in your wife. She did not fall out of love because of her faults. She has fall...

After 20 years together , a big fight at Christmas led to me moving out for 6 weeks . Worst time of my life , as I love her , she’s “not in love with me anymore “ But we have 2 beautiful children , I am a busy professional , she doesn’t have to work , and we are just about financially secure - with ...

Any men here over 40 ,try testosterone replacement therapy in an effort to combat depression ? There are a lot of encouraging reports out there . Just wondering .

Yea . I have the wife and kids . Not broke either . I still feel like sh** . A 30 year habit , only 37 days in . I am into training in a big way and know how to exhaust myself .. It makes no difference . Sleep is 3 h at best then I wake up from a vivid dream , sweat ridden . I did quit for 7 months ...

Hi Fabulous. I’m 30 years a toker. For the last 20 years , have been doing 1.5 grams a day . I never waked and baked , as I work a good job . I always kept it for 2 joints on the couch at night , Watching discovery or hitlers lost sub or something like that on the history channel . Can I ask you how...

He who has a why , can bare almost any how .

I’m 34 days off it today . I’m a high functioning professional , a former Ironman triathlete and competitive power lifter . Last time I went clear was 2009 so I know what to expect . I’m 46 now , and my main issues are A my kids are growing up abs I don’t want them seeing dad as a stoner , and B , m...