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Hi lonelymom, Well, I think it's similar to the thread Gabranth and I have been talking in about doctors.... .... doctors, priests, people who really care (or seem to ) are very drawing when you have a problem (and your user name indicates that maybe you have). They are Safe Havens, Ports In A Storm...
by tourmaline
Wed Apr 13, 2011 11:23 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: inlove
Replies: 22
Views: 5131

Lol, thank you, Gabranth.

yes - you go into rehab for blonde haired green-eyed medically qualified women...

...and I'll go into rehab for (and with) well mannered, well educated doctors.

(And we'll find the places stuffed full of people in love with their doctors)

Lol. :D
by tourmaline
Wed Apr 13, 2011 9:41 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush on my doctor
Replies: 8
Views: 9350

Hi Gabranth, Well, in all honesty, I ALWAYS fall in love with my doctors! Honestly I do. What's not to love? They are well educated, well spoken, well groomed and usually have good listening skills. Most importantly - I'm a woman alone who has to raise a child with little money, no support and life'...
by tourmaline
Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:45 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush on my doctor
Replies: 8
Views: 9350

Hi Bawb, I do agree with Rainbowstormcloud's comments - I don't know why you blame yourself for your friend's death, either. Okay, you were a child at the time and children do feel things very intently; but you are that bit older now and have to start putting clearly into your mind that deaths, beat...
by tourmaline
Wed Apr 13, 2011 8:38 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Life... sucks!
Replies: 25
Views: 8698

Yep. I do it too. I find it very cathartic at times - those times when I can get to say something I should have said to someone who is now gone. It's either say it out as if that person was there (often acting as if they are responding) and getting it out of my system; or getting back in touch with ...
by tourmaline
Tue Apr 05, 2011 1:53 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Imaginary Talking To people
Replies: 5
Views: 2701

Most likely, it means all is not well in his romantic/sexual world right now and he needs a reliable Fallback Girl. Really. I had all this only 2 or so months back from my ex, and it twists and confuses, as well as hurts. The best advice I had (which I got from here, thanks folks) was NO CONTACT - a...
by tourmaline
Fri Apr 01, 2011 6:41 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: what does it mean when a ex says this.
Replies: 7
Views: 4931

Well, it was a good "but in" sarsparilla and told me something I didn't know.

My first (and only) exposure to La Bute's work was the dire and dreary The Mercy Seat... so I never went back for more.
by tourmaline
Fri Mar 25, 2011 9:41 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: am i the only one who hates manipulative women & feminis
Replies: 64
Views: 11903

Hi freedom :) Well, of course anything is possible where humans are concerned and it is often the case that along comes someone who isn't what we usually go for but who, over time, expands our idea of what attractive is so that, slowly, we come to finding them sexually interesting. BUT, tread slowly...
by tourmaline
Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:29 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Can you be in love but not find them physically attractive?
Replies: 9
Views: 4739

PoppyGoodWill wrote:TRY TO PAY ATTENTION --- I DIDN'T MEAN CLASSIC MAN EITHER.
:-)


I know that, Poppy! Stop yelling! I was just stating a general point of view aimed at no one (although it would have been aimed at tokeless, if I had been going to aim it at anyone!)

:P

:D
by tourmaline
Thu Mar 24, 2011 5:44 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: am i the only one who hates manipulative women & feminis
Replies: 64
Views: 11903

I have to say that I never got the impression that Classic Man was misogynistic or overly angry from his opening post (pee'd off, yes); nor did I get the feeling he was here to troll or agitate. I think he was a bit sweeping in his lumping all strong women and feminists into the one corral with this...
by tourmaline
Thu Mar 24, 2011 2:55 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: am i the only one who hates manipulative women & feminis
Replies: 64
Views: 11903

Nooooo, Classic Man! Don't stop giving second chances just because of this one ill mannered woman. Maybe just be a tad more selective about handing them out, is all :)
by tourmaline
Thu Mar 24, 2011 12:01 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: am i the only one who hates manipulative women & feminis
Replies: 64
Views: 11903

Re: "am I odd, or am I not?"

Mad dongle = double post :oops:
by tourmaline
Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:01 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: "am I odd, or am I not?"
Replies: 5
Views: 5799

Re: "am I odd, or am I not?"

I'm also tired and going to bed, so just briefly, in my opinion you don't sound very odd for a 22 year old. I think a lot of people feel 'odd' despite coming across as very normal to others. You still have plenty of to develop your own personality, not that you dont already have one. Compared with ...
by tourmaline
Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:00 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: "am I odd, or am I not?"
Replies: 5
Views: 5799

Yes, that happens. Quite often it's stuff you need to "work through" - even just acknowledging how it hurt or upset you can be cleansing. Try "journalling". Not so much writing a diary, but writing down the what, when, where, who, why and letting the page hold it still for you wh...
by tourmaline
Tue Mar 22, 2011 11:52 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Remembering the bad stuff
Replies: 4
Views: 963

SodaCrates, You've done your best for everyone around you for a very long time now and I think you should be greatly appreciated for that. But, at 21, yes, it's time to live your life more for yourself now. Not entirely for yourself - no one really does that, it's not healthy; but mainly for yoursel...
by tourmaline
Sun Mar 20, 2011 11:32 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My Father and I
Replies: 2
Views: 748
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