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Got it, then you need to master this skill. The good thing is that you know there is your sticking point. The book that I just told you about will be great. You might also check out "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Pretty much any top book on effective communicat...

I don't think that's a problem. Maybe you have different aspirations than your collegues. However, the problem might be fear of failure or fear of rejection - that's 2 major fears that we all experience on a daily basis. Try to determine what are your aspiration, what do you strive for? I don't thin...

Hi, Anna. I don't think there can be the clearer answer than "get rid of all lies in your life" . First , determine the root cause, why do you lie? Second , decide that from now on you will tell only truth to people around you. Third , sit down with your friends (after you understood your ...

The difference between Physical Laws and Mental Laws is that the first have instant results and manifestation in the world, when the second ones only manifest themselves after some period of time (from 10 minutes to infancy) that makes them harder to be measured and calculated. However, nobody dispr...

That is a great question, ahung! I thought about it for a little bit. I see 2 major problems here: 1 . Some people hardly move up the corparate ladder to a new position. They got promoted because they were exellent of what they were doing on the previous position. Now, they have new responsabilities...

Hi, Omid! It's very sad what happend with you, but you have to move on. You said "you change your mind every 3 hours" , I believe it's because of fear of failure . You never felt strong parenting. Nobody was there to support you. This leads to the feeling of inadequacy and undeservedness. ...

It's great that you are back on track! I believe in you. Now we're talking, procrastination is a real pain in the "donkey". I'm currently reading "Eat that Fog" by Brian Tracy , it's considered the single one best ever book on "how to beat procrastination and get ting things...

Worry comes from not accepting responsibility. Doesn't matter if it's not your fault. Say "I am responsible!", "I am responsible!" and you will feel more calm and confident.

I remember one quote from a guy who has nothing to do with this topic, he said: "Your problem guys that you are too smart, you overthink and overcomplicate things too much, it's better to be dumb sometimes and just do". Even though I don't think that being "dumb" is good, I will ...

Perfectionism is a problem when you don't take any action. You have to cut a big task into smaller sub-tasks and then work on 1 sub-task at the time. This way you won't be overwhelmed trying to make everything perfect in this major task. Perfectionism also lead to fear of failure (as you mentioned) ...

I think you should try to resolve everything while you're still living with her, but then move out and live your own life. You didn't list anything that you won't be able to provide for yourself (if you're not 14 year old, of course that I doubt very much). Candid has a right point, deal with everyt...

Thank you for sharing! You are right, reverse programming works really well. Speaking about presentations, what can I say, public speaking is the biggest fear of all as scientists say. However, I never really felt any stress or anxiety when I know the material and I think it's valuable. I always wat...

Yeah, you are right, Leo ) a lot of people clicks the "exit" botton as soon as they see some major actions necessary. I am sure Fernandita is not like that. I agree, the wide range of solutions is crucial here, because we only know a portion of the story and almost inevitably interpret it ...

I don't want to sound like a douchebag, but you should go to see your doctor and stop smoking weed. I don't think anybody here will be able to help you with medical issues. Even if somebody have a similar experience, it's better to have a check-up because everybody's situation is different. Don't me...

Don't even think twice about it. Find a job as a designer, work and study the subject that you love, quit your studies if you feel like doing it. I don't think there is something more here to be said.