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HI everyone, I have been friends with an person A for about 20 years now, we used to go to the same secondary school together and have been friends through thick and thin. Now i was friends with these other two people (Person B & C) who also went to the same school but I was friends with them an...

HI Everyone, I used to be quite a shy person, very quiet just got on with things and not disturb anyone. YOu could say that may be I felt a bit socially awkward in certain situations but then one day i discovered a new side to myself, i used to read plenty of self help books, then one day i came acr...

but why should I be subjected to this? Because of this... https://www.uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=105397&p=884050#p884050 A year ago they wanted you to move out and asked you to move out. Why are you being so disrespectful? That is why you are subject to what is going on in your life. Reg...

I have been living at home with my husband and 2 children for the last 5 years, being asian its culture to stay with in-laws, some of course do like to move away from their family and live by themselves but certainly not unusual in our culture to stay with in-laws even after marriage and after havin...

There's a few things here that need to be considered. First, whether or not you said something that could have been construed as a negative connotation doesn't change the fact you are seeking approval from that person (and anyone else in his court) who believes what was said was somehow inappropria...

I have a friend who once asked me about someone I knew and he asked me about him, I said he was different, as in different from us as he is a bit more eccentric. Now what's happened is that he has gone and told this third party that I apparently said he isn't a nice person, now this is completely fa...

Umm, this is the problem, property isn't in their name, itso in the name of elderly 2 brothers in law that live there, And have either of the brother in laws asked you to leave? One of the brothers is taking his parents side cos he is a wimp but the other one is logical and saying we have the right...

If they want you to leave, you leave. They don't need a reason to ask you to leave, period. You have no right to stay. If I am the parents and you don't leave after being asked to leave, I consider it disrespectful and would legally evict you, even if you are family. It is my house, not your house,...

Hi Everyone, I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years now, and have 3 beautiful children. Being Asian it is tradition for a lot of couples to still be living with in laws and what not, More and more couples are moving out and living away from their families and complete respect for them ...

Well you have two different situations here. When you are alone it's easier to understand because sometimes we as individuals need to reinforce what we're thinking by speaking the terms aloud. Hearing what we think allows us to accept what we're feeling better. If we give voice to our feelings, it ...

I seem to have a bad habit of constantly talking to myself, as in having proper conversations, using hand gestures and sometimes arguing with myself. I know that talking to yourself isn't all that bad if done mildly as we all do it but not to the extent that I do. I'm almost like having full blown c...

Low self-esteem often makes us prisoners to carrying the blame for the actions of others. Even worse it sometimes demands that we seek their permission to let go of that guilt even when we clearly were not to blame. Someone treating you badly both in private and in public is not something that requ...

Hi happy14 I don't think there's any point of trying to find the answers to why he's behaved the way he has. I know you want them and trying to understand why but there's no point. What good could it do? I mean we could try and psychoanalysis things but it wouldn't change a thing. The only thing yo...

Hi people, I have/had this friend who I have known since secondary school, it's been 20 years and our friendship has fluctuated up and down and it's been more down than up in last 3 years. He is living in another city from me and occasionally comes back to meet his family that still live here and to...

Look, do what you want. You told him no, end of story. You don't need to second guess or figure out this or that about him and the friendship. No means no. If he can't understand that then tell him to f&ck off! It isn't about your dad being right or him being right. It is about you being who yo...