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Hi, I'm very sorry that you are in such a dark place right now. I've been there too, I felt hopeless: no matter where my mind was wondering, it was all gloomy. In my case I was feeling the pressure of society and I was restless, unable to find any peace, stressing myself out when I didn't have a rea...

Hi, I read your story and I hope that taking it all out made you feel even just a little lighter at the end. ;-) You've been through a lot and now you definitely need now some relief and relax. Maybe it's not so bad that your dad left the house, at least now you have peace on the outside. However, w...

Hi, You are in a difficult position as being with a depressed person can be really draining. I can briefly share my experience. I used to suffer from depression and I didn't realize how much pain I was creating not only in myself but also in my boyfriend at the time. Until he found the courage to te...

Dear Nekoboy21, do you like cats by any chance? Because "neko" means cat in Japanese... :wink: Anyway, talking about your issue. I went through a similar period and I was torn because a part of me wanted to socialize yet at the same time I didn't really feel motivated to do that, it was to...

My dear khaleesii, I did felt in the past the way you're feeling right now. I think I was exactly your age at that time. The good news is that I don't feel that way anymore, so I'm the proof that those feeling-stuck kind of situations can change. They have to, it's inevitable, otherwise one ends up ...

Dear xiao yang, I used to be in a situation similar to yours some years ago. I couldn't seem to stay in the same job for too long. Couldn't really save any money. Got bored easily. Felt like I always needed the company of someone to really enjoy life. Went through depression and thought about killin...

Dear Keren, I feel you so much. I experienced directly verbal abuse and witnessed as a kid physical abuse of people I loved in my own family. Also because of that I used to suffer from depression ( thank God now I'm completely free from it!!! ). What you experienced was awful and not the normality. ...

Dear Shanvhere, I've been there too so I feel you. Kids might not be your priority right now but clearly your heart is wishing that someday you'll be able to take care of other human beings as well: that's very important. However, before that, it's necessary that you take care of yourself. Obviously...

I liked stella's reply a lot. Eating disorders are not just about food, they are there for telling us something. I used to suffer from anorexia first then binge eating and it was awful. Little by little I faced my problems and unveiled the reasons behind them. Anxiety was making me eat too much and ...

I can't go to sleep if i am hungry, my stomach would hurt. Now I am eating something very little, like 3 bites of bread, or some other food that I like and go to sleep. So I don' t think it is a disorder. I think you should eat something light or something small, so you don't put extra pounds on yo...

One thing that I have learned is that when I try to get out of it, I am pulled right back in. As Einstein said, “You cannot solve a problem from the same consciousness that created it. You must learn to see the world anew.” Thank your body for giving you a signal that something is off in your life....

I'm the same. Living with depression is hard. I hate it. I lay in bed most of the day. Don't go out and don't have any friends left. All my friends have left me. Turn to food for comfort. Horrible disease. I'm sorry for how you're feeling. I used to turn to food for comfort too. It seemed to me tha...

Dear, I understand the feeling of wanting to be understood and accepted by your parents. However, remember that this is your life and you can live it with your own beliefs and your sexuality is something yours, very personal. I used to consider suicide too when I was in too much pain but now that al...

Dear Carlita, sounds like you're having a hard time. Are you telling us that even if you study hard and understand very well what's in your books then at the exam somehow you don't do well? Is this because on the exam day you cannot remember anything? I'd like to know what happens between the "...

dear not quiet dead yet, of course by story I meant ideas. Ideas that anyway require a little bit of explanation and introduction. For me overcoming depression ended up to be very natural and even funny process once I got its mechanism and how to turn it upside down. I used to think that I couldn't ...