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Hey guys, thanks for the encouragement!

Yes I have thought that my lying causes the very arguments I am trying to avoid! Stupid I know as I end up causing them!

I am determined to beat this!

If i didnt fear confrontation/arguements so much i would be fine telling the truth yes. I am trying so hard. I am taking my time and it is working. Today my gf asked if the girl i am seeing tonight was bringing her bf or not to the meeting. My immediate reaction was to say yes so that she would not ...

Young, Intelligent, Driven

The sudden realisation that life could, in truth, be a lot worse and having the sun shine on my face!

Hi satanstoystore, Yeah that makes perfect sense to me! To answer your questions: If i think a confrontation is coming i do feel like i have to get away ASAP. And i do have feelings of doubt in myself because more often than not i know what i say will not cause an arguement and that it is my lying t...

I enjoy going to the gym.

I love just plugging in my Ipod and just concentrating wholly on doing my routine.

I find it can be a place where, although i am surrounded by other people, i am alone to do what i want!

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Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on why people feel it necessary to lie? Dont get me wrong - i myself am a liar but i generally dont really understand why i told the lies i did. I really hurt my gf but having sat down and talked things through she is supporting me in over...

Seta37 - Are you saying that i can, in time, make my truth centres more "powerful" than my lie centres? When i am supposed to tell the truth i get a little voice in my head telling me i am not being honest but it just gets drowned out. Though it is getting louder if that makes sense. When...

Hi Everyone, Thank you so much for your replies! I really am grateful! Masha B - I am afraid of confrontation. But what makes it even more stupid is that the "topic" that i think will cause an arguement is actually not a big deal and i end up argueing with my gf because i lied! John - I fi...

Hi everyone, I am new to this forum but i do not know where else to turn. I am a liar. I have a real problem with telling the truth. I have lied to my friends but worst of all i have lied to my girlfriend. I love Lauren with all my heart and yet i cannot stop lying to her! We have even had sit down ...

Hi everyone, I am new to this forum but i do not know where else to turn. I am a liar. I have a real problem with telling the truth. I have lied to my friends but worst of all i have lied to my girlfriend. I love Lauren with all my heart and yet i cannot stop lying to her! We have even had sit down ...