You can't take anything that people say or think about you personally. Everyone has a different perspective on life. The age you are at can be difficult at times trying to figure out what this life means to you. But remember that only you can define who you are. You are only useless if you agree to ...
You sound like a bright person and it is clear that you are aware of how you feel. That is important and will help you grow in very positive ways. There is a fog surrounding your current situation, embrace it and don't resist. That may sound difficult, but trust me when I say that things Will clear ...
You don't "fall in love" you can only fall in "lust". That is where you are heading. Starting a relationship on lust and infatuation is not a good idea. So stopping it is good. Establish a friendship with her and see if these feelings change. You want a friendship before a relati...
Fear is uncertainty. That is the basic form. All fear stems from that. Knowing that, you are uncertain that you will succeed. Stop worrying about the future that far ahead. Be who you are and do what you want to make it to where you want to go TODAY. Take baby steps and live in the moment and there ...
I hear of so many people who say that they are happy with their relationship but in the same sentence, they will list off all the reasons why they are unhappy. Sometimes some people just aren't good for us and us staying with these people ends up draining our life force, making us less of who we are...
Don't make a mountain out of a sand hill. You are letting your doubts and fears of the future scare you. And you say "follow your dreams" which worries me. One can not simply follow a dream and ever expect to be happy because once that dream has been fulfilled, you will just have a new emp...
You have to not let it bother you. I know that sound hard but think of it like you are two siblings and he is the older one. The older one will pick on the younger one until he realizes that it doesn't bother them. Fighting fire with fire won't solve your problems.
I have had a few friends growing up with lisps. I have also known a number of people in my day to day life to have them. As children, they know they sound differently only when others point it out. I used to tell my friends it was their own unique accent, like people from Britain or Australia with t...
You just have social anxiety. You would be shocked how many people do. Most social anxiety has to do with the "Me, myself and I" complex. You are worried about making someone feel differently toward you. Children who grow up with very few friends have trouble dealing with confrontation bey...
Very good points but I think you made it more complex than it needed to be. You just want to be straight to the point, avoid repeating unless you are in the closing statement, and always appear open and friendly.
From my experience with public speaking, you want to separate you, yourself, from what you are speaking on unless it is directly about you. This causes everyone to focus on the message and not so much what you are doing. I have had trouble in the past and the easiest and most effective way i over co...
The primary purpose of meditation isn’t to melt your anxiety. Instead, it’s to help you become more present right now, in this very moment. The anxiety reduction is just a pleasant side effect. We often experience anxiety because we fixate on the past or on the future. However, when you’re meditatin...