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No, i'm not really seeking agreement from anyone, just some care & consideration. I get upset when people take "politically correct" attitudes towards dealing with anger that offer no safeguard to the vulnerable in the situation.

I'm sticking with zero tolerance.
by kotinka
Sat Mar 20, 2010 9:45 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Worried about my husband's anger at my son
Replies: 17
Views: 34720

Get out of this situation and find someone who loves you and the kids. Otherwise later in life you will regret it. Or take a serious step and have him arrested if the need be!.....Don't hesitate! One of the confusing parts about angry people is that anger is NOT the opposite of love. Often times, p...
by kotinka
Thu Mar 18, 2010 1:08 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Worried about my husband's anger at my son
Replies: 17
Views: 34720

Ohhhh, I should probably not have said that!! No it was a thing about violence to kids, brought back a bit of childhood stuff :shock: :) Having said that, it's up to me what I read, people should post whatever they need to here. It just highlighted I was a bit more "fragile" than I thought...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:28 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Hiya & catchup?
Replies: 5
Views: 2228

ah don't worry, I'm a bit ratty meself today :D
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:25 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Painkillers as a remedy???
Replies: 15
Views: 7640

Hiya & catchup?

Hi everyone who's been a help since christmas, thanks for being there. I hit a bit of a wall for a week, so I've been out of the way. Lots of anger & crying, not much getting done :cry: Ah well, buggrit! Feeling calmer now. It's bizarre, it was a post on here that kind of dropped me back in a pi...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 1:29 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Hiya & catchup?
Replies: 5
Views: 2228

Nobody other than you, Kotinka, has mentioned opiates at all as far as I can see. Amprox certainly didn't.


codeine, tramadol and morphine are opiate based analgesics - I thought this was common knowledge.
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 1:18 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Painkillers as a remedy???
Replies: 15
Views: 7640

Hi Danny & Hardy sorry guys, I've been out of the way because of hitting a bad patch but fingers crossed I'm out the other end of it now. Danny, you've been in my thoughts, hoped things were getting easier for you. ...I totally agree, dying aint for me, I don't want that, ...what is hacking at m...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 1:13 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Please help me to understand what is going on
Replies: 48
Views: 10891

Hi ejc, that method sounds brilliant. Shame I was not offered it - are you in the uk? I've been 22 days without now Of the symptoms I was having I am now having: anger, anxiety & mild panic attacks weepiness milder confusion fatigue after about 4 hours interaction with people, shopping etc. peri...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 21, 2010 12:46 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Venlafaxine Effexor withdrawal
Replies: 346
Views: 249842

Hi Solace -how is the situation? Are you & your son ok?

xx


k
by kotinka
Fri Jan 15, 2010 9:43 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Worried about my husband's anger at my son
Replies: 17
Views: 34720

thanks for the help wylo

for new users, the technique is a little transparent but if you give it a good shot it can help change your mind. Don't be cynical :-)
by kotinka
Fri Jan 15, 2010 9:38 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Moodgym
Replies: 4
Views: 2862

Craig M wrote:.... Get on a path together, don't give up, and keep coming back to the path when you lose your way.


this would be great advice if there was not a child in the situation. With a 5 year old at home they can't afford to "lose their way" and try again repeatedly.
by kotinka
Thu Jan 14, 2010 11:52 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Worried about my husband's anger at my son
Replies: 17
Views: 34720

Hi, I hope you realise that your responsibility is to the child who can't protect himself and not to the adult who is behaving badly. Your husband has a CHOICE about what he does & he is being a bully. If he wants to vent he ought to go for a run or go to a bar & pick on someone his own size...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 14, 2010 11:45 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Worried about my husband's anger at my son
Replies: 17
Views: 34720

Clocodile, you're talking rubbish here. My boyfriend just had an operation and was prescribed codeine, paracetamol and ibuprofen. The hospital sent him away with absolutely tons of the things - he's barely touched them. Where do you live? Guessing not the UK. Also, my boyfriend tells me that codein...
by kotinka
Thu Jan 14, 2010 6:30 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Painkillers as a remedy???
Replies: 15
Views: 7640

hiya, the euphoria & mellowness of opiates only lasts a few weeks. Then you get the side effects. Coming off them is hard too. I'm just off to bed, & can write more tomorrow, but I just wanted to let you know it's a bad plan.

back soon

xx

k
by kotinka
Wed Jan 13, 2010 11:58 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Painkillers as a remedy???
Replies: 15
Views: 7640

who is they?
by kotinka
Wed Jan 13, 2010 1:58 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: PSYCHOLOGICAL TACTICS THAT SIMPLY FAIL...
Replies: 12
Views: 4302
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