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Re: Help, sexual development gone weird...

Im going to try to be on good terms, especially since without the relationship we still speak on the phone on a daily basis about work proiects, our departments work together. But I find that doing things helps. Usually I was the one who ended up calling if we had spats after a few days because I wa...
by RoxyCookie
Fri Jan 08, 2021 11:31 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Re: Help, sexual development gone weird...

I'm not setting rules anymore, I just said that - when I said that I wont continue regardless. And I need to tell it to her too. And we still "cry on eachothers shoulders" because we didnt talk it through and she is still trying but Im not. And I dont think simply not answering my phone at...
by RoxyCookie
Fri Jan 08, 2021 10:54 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Re: Help, sexual development gone weird...

Its been 4 days since the break up and even though I cried every day and had puffy eyes to the point where people thought somethings wrong with me, I'm doing a little better. Yesterday we talked on messenger, she asked to see me and I said no. She's not the kind of person with whom you make plans - ...
by RoxyCookie
Fri Jan 08, 2021 12:56 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Re: Help, sexual development gone weird...

Thank you for the patience of writing this. Yes, no matter how many times I try to solve this situation, I always get to the same conclusion, that I need to end this. That regardless of my feelings or hers, as long as she is married and living there, we can't do anything. It's not a relationship, it...
by RoxyCookie
Mon Jan 04, 2021 2:37 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Re: Help, sexual development gone weird...

Hi and thanks for the reply. I am bothered by the idea of her sleeping with him even though I was asked by people "whats the big deal? She's not into it, she's just doing it to survive in that environment. Accept it and understand why." So I'm not sure if it's jealousy based on my feelings...
by RoxyCookie
Mon Jan 04, 2021 1:33 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Help, sexual development gone weird...

This is a heavy one. As a child (girl), my young parents and I were living together until their divorce. I always felt that my father competed with me for my mother's affection. For instance: he rarely engaged with me without her present. He very much wanted me to leave whenever I was present. I was...
by RoxyCookie
Sun Jan 03, 2021 11:16 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Help, sexual development gone weird...
Replies: 9
Views: 3499

Re: I hate my race and skin color. I hate being black.

Hi! Did you know that skin color is based on geography and the human's position to the sun? Basically the early humans who were born in warmer climates developed darker skin because the melanin acts as a natural sunscreen to protect people from the UV rays of the sun in those climates. That's it. Th...
by RoxyCookie
Sun Jan 03, 2021 10:42 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: I hate my race and skin color. I hate being black.
Replies: 3
Views: 2555

Re: Parent Boundaries?

Can I just say... well - you and only you are the only one who gets your own schedule. To keep your options open (meaning to be able to go shopping one day or whatever you want, after school) I would say something like this: I'm not sure I may be available to do this daily but I will let you know wh...
by RoxyCookie
Sun Jan 03, 2021 10:28 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Parent Boundaries?
Replies: 11
Views: 4016

Woman having an affair with a married woman...

So... we fell in love suddenly somewhere in 2016. She is married, has a 20 year old son and an emotionally abusive husband. I understood a lot of things - that she cant leave cause there is nowhere for her to go except for her mothers place. That she doesnt want to come out because of her son. That ...
by RoxyCookie
Sun Jan 03, 2021 9:10 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Woman having an affair with a married woman...
Replies: 1
Views: 1120

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