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Distored Memories, OCD & Anxiety from Shameful Memory

Hi everyone, So I've stumbled across this forum and decided to post a personal story in aids to get some advice and help from anyone who's experienced similar issue. Long story short, I was involved with some weird awakward sexual horse play/experimentation with my younger brother (5 -6 years younge...
by DaSilva1727
Thu Nov 29, 2018 11:20 pm
 
Forum: Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Topic: Distored Memories, OCD & Anxiety from Shameful Memory
Replies: 2
Views: 2136

Re: For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Co

Yeah meditation is good. The thing is that I dont do it consistently so the effects dont get the time to blow over. If I knew wether my brother remembered then I'd bring it up to apologize. But since I'm not sure if he does or not then I might risk bringing up something he doesnt reemember and then ...
by DaSilva1727
Wed Oct 17, 2018 11:36 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Cousin
Replies: 23
Views: 26778

Re: For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Co

Sexual experimentation in young children is not an uncommon concept. Look it up on your search engine, there's plenty online. Hi Chad, Yeah I've read plenty online, probably more then my brain can handle. But I was just trying to get a feel for anyone here that's had their own personal experience w...
by DaSilva1727
Tue Oct 16, 2018 11:59 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Cousin
Replies: 23
Views: 26778

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Wow that was amazing Xscreen I'm very grateful for that advice on OCD. After reading all that maybe it is my OCD that makes me feel guilty and ashamed from the incident although multiple people on forums, as well as my therapist, told me that it's not a bad situation and nothing to really worry abou...
by DaSilva1727
Sat Sep 01, 2018 9:54 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Thanks xscreen, I appreciate your insight. Although I agree with your comments Honestly it just makes me feel gross and disgusted that technically the first somewhat sexual experience I had was with a dude that was my own brother. Even tho all we did was rub our bodies together with our clothes on, ...
by DaSilva1727
Fri Aug 31, 2018 9:33 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Cousin

Hey all, I'm seeing a lot of posts on here about feeling remorseful and guilty about experimenting sexually with siblings & cousins at a young age and I just have some questions: 1) Have any of you ever brought it up with them to explain and apologize ? And if so how did it go ? 2) How's your re...
by DaSilva1727
Thu Aug 30, 2018 5:12 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: For Anyone That's Experimented Sexually with Siblings/Cousin
Replies: 23
Views: 26778

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Hey thanks again for answering. It does amaze me how some people are able to put a lid on it and move on like nothing is affecting them but not all of us have the same hardwired brain to do so. I'll maybe see a psychologist and ask if medication is worth it even for a bit while doing therapy to go a...
by DaSilva1727
Sat Aug 25, 2018 5:07 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

I relate to this post so much. I've been dealing with intrusive thoughts about a similar experience when I was in my teens. This happened when I was 15-16-17 I can't really recall exactly how old I was (that kinda freaks me out) and the other person involved was way younger than me. Happened during...
by DaSilva1727
Sat Aug 25, 2018 11:11 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Effects of Alcohol & Drugs on Anxiety & Depression

Hi people, Just had a general question to throw out there. . . how much influence can alcohol & drugs (particularly MDMA / ecstacy) have on anxiety and depression over regular use after a few years ? I started drinking when I was 18-19 and now I'm 27. I would say I would drink almost every other...
by DaSilva1727
Wed Aug 22, 2018 9:34 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Effects of Alcohol & Drugs on Anxiety & Depression
Replies: 0
Views: 1304

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

The only reason I would mention it to him is to see if hes ok and if it affected him negatively in any way. The conversation goes like this... “Hey brother, I’m older than you so how you remember our relationship growing up together might be different than what I remember. I just want you to know t...
by DaSilva1727
Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:03 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Our relationship is pretty good at the moment, we talk occasionally and when we do its a pretty positive and friendly interaction. We're not super close as of yet but we're on good terms as compared to years ago and its slowly getting better. We've had the typical sibling rivalry growing up like mo...
by DaSilva1727
Wed Aug 22, 2018 5:38 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

I think you're over analysing it. These things are very common in childhood and there is no malicious thought behind it. I remember playing show me yours with cousins (female) and classmates when I was about 5-6...it's just part of growing up. Personally I wouldn't mention it to your brother becaus...
by DaSilva1727
Wed Aug 22, 2018 10:42 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Re: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Also just to add I've never had any sexual interaction with a child, or underage girl. Never had any pedophile thoughts or even thought about any sort of pedophile behaviour. I worked at a summer camp for a few years with children and never had any sort of sexual thought about them. Just hearing stu...
by DaSilva1727
Tue Aug 21, 2018 9:00 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help

Hey everyone, So I've come across some posts on here as well as other sites about sexual experimenting between siblings and cousins. I myself had my own embarrassing and shameful experience when I was a young-mid aged teenager with my younger brother too (both males, approx. 5 yrs apart). Long story...
by DaSilva1727
Tue Aug 21, 2018 8:40 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Regret Over Sibling Sexual Experimentation - Need Help
Replies: 27
Views: 22508

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